Title: My Grandma and Her Story: Reliving the Warmth and Regret of the Years.
Hello everyone, today I would like to share the story of an elderly and respectable woman – my grandmother. Grandma's life experience is full of hardships and trials, but at the same time, it also blooms with heart-warming family affection and the brilliance of humanity.
My grandmother was born in the countryside in the fifties and sixties of the last century, and she grew up in a patriarchal society. Her parents, however, were unaffected by this thinking. They treat their children, older brother and younger sister, with an equal attitude at all times. Whether it's farm work or household chores, they always divide it fairly and let the two children fend for themselves.
At that time, as the eldest daughter in the family, my aunt took on the responsibility of taking care of the family as a teenager, and my sister flew around her like a happy little bee. Auntie's sense of responsibility gives her a firm and decisive courage in the face of choices. As a young and new marriage, despite her family's worries about her future life situation, she is brave and strong, and still chooses to take on all challenges on her own.
Unfortunately, fate played a trick on her, and the newly married husband in the neighboring village died suddenly of illness, and they did not even have a child belonging to each other. However, her aunt's mother-in-law and several aunts blamed her for all this, believing that her fate was doomed and that she had upset the balance of the whole family. When my grandfather learned about this, he immediately gathered relatives and friends and took my aunt back to her parents' house.
Because this matter is widely known, the fate of the aunt has become more and more difficult, when will she meet someone who really loves her? Grandma was very disgusted by these controversies, and she insisted that we are willing to do our best to raise our eldest sister for the rest of our lives, and this will always be her home. For this reason, after graduating from high school, my father got a job at the town's post and telecommunications office, and later met his kind mother and entered the palace of marriage.
The mother is gentle and cheerful, filial to the elders, gentle and generous, and is deeply loved by her grandmother. Before they got married, the father tactfully told the mother that we should always keep an eye on the aunt, respect her, and make sure she doesn't feel excluded. The mother seems to be weak, but in fact she has a tough heart. The mother expressed regret for her aunt's situation, and she secretly promised that in the future, she would treat her aunt as her own, resolve the wind and rain with family affection, and give her love and support.
However, my mother never expected that the aunt, who was kind and enthusiastic on the surface, was like a poisonous snake hidden in the corner, which could bring harm to her relatives at any time. She was holding her pregnant belly and was still in the period of pregnancy reaction, but she was always diligent because she didn't get up to cook, but she was blamed by yin and yang. At that time, the house was deserted, and when my aunt saw the unburned stove, she went straight into her mother's room, lifted her mother's quilt and reprimanded: Is it so squeamish just because she is pregnant? Let's go cook!
Although my mother was weak, she tried her best to explain: "Sister, this is what my mother said, pregnant women do feel uncomfortable when they are just pregnant. I'll do my best when I'm better in a while. I can imagine how I feel when I look at my former friends who now doubt her character and ability.
Although the aunt also tries to take on the responsibility of the family and make the family live a better life, due to various reasons, her strength and development space are limited. Therefore, grandma has always taken on the heavy responsibilities inside and outside the family, so that the aunt has a relaxed and leisurely home life. In the morning, my grandmother would get up and prepare breakfast for my father, and then in high spirits she would start cleaning the yard and feeding the poultry.
At the beginning of the day, Grandma began to prepare breakfast for the whole family, and when they had finished eating, she could enjoy it herself. When the work is finished and the dinner is delicious, the whole family sits around to enjoy the dinner and enjoy the family fun. Whether it is the morning sunshine, the tranquil pastoral style, or the innocent family affection, every place and every moment has endowed grandma with endless warmth and satisfaction.
Although Grandma put in a lot of effort, some regrets still cannot be avoided. For example, the once united and harmonious family has gradually come to the verge of farewell with the death and relocation of family members. Looking at her emaciated aunt, Grandma quietly wiped away her tears. However, the fragmentary memories of parenting have been blown away by the spring breeze, and only the care and love in my heart have never changed.
Time is changing, the world is changing, but the family ties between us and grandma for generations, as well as those historical stories that contain wisdom and strength, are like the eternal starry sky, shining brightly. I believe that as long as we are grateful and cherish the present, these touching memories will become nourishment in the depths of our hearts, nourishing every step of our way.