The post-80s generation is really full of miracles. Some have become mothers-in-law, some have become grandmothers, some have just started kindergarten, and some are still single.
It's not a joke, it's a high-praise comment on a trending topic on the web. A 37-year-old woman unexpectedly became the subject of hot searches.
In the middle of this month, a couple in Xinyang, Henan Province tied the knot. The man is only 18 years old, and the woman's age has not been announced.
In this society, it is relatively rare for people to get married as soon as they become adults. But what is even more surprising is that the age of the man's mother is only 37 years old.
At her son's wedding, the 37-year-old mother wore a little light makeup. If you meet someone who doesn't know the situation, you may mistake her for the groom's sister.
She explained that her son was biological, that she became a mother at the age of 19, and that her son was married at the age of 18.
In July 2022, the woman ushered in her moment as a grandmother.
After a group photo of grandchildren**, netizens expressed their shock: "This is the child's grandmother, not the child's mother?" ”
It turned out that the grandmother was only 36 years old, and her fate was cleverly reincarnated, and now her son also became a father at the age of 18. So at the age at the beginning of the three characters, she became an ancestor.
Some people still have the traditional concept that it is a happiness for young people to become elders as soon as possible. After all, this is the traditional concept of "having a noble son early" and "having many children and many grandchildren".
But Sichuan pepper has a different opinion on this.
That is, their living environment is relatively backward and their education level is not high. Taking the incident of "becoming a mother-in-law at the age of 37" as an example, local people said that their family had little culture.
If you don't have the opportunity to go to college when you're young, you will choose to start a family soon after graduation.
Just like the woman who became a grandmother at the age of 36, her experience is also poignant.
She said she was born in a remote rural village and went to work before finishing high school. Then, like many young people, she married early and started a family.
This lady said frankly that even if she talks about these experiences, she will not feel any pride, after all, it is fate to come, and she can only face it calmly.
Big data on marriage and love also indirectly confirms this phenomenon.
In China's coastal areas, such as the Yangtze River Delta and the Pearl River Delta, the average age of marriage is about 30 years old.
In Shanxi, Yunnan and Jiangxi, where the economy is relatively backward, the average age of marriage is around 27 years old.
In fact, according to the law, men must be at least 22 years old and women must be at least 20 years old to register for marriage.
Many young people in rural areas choose to have a wedding first and then apply for a marriage certificate when they have not reached the legal age of marriage.
As a result, the real age of marriage in rural areas is generally lower than official statistics.
There is a hot topic on the Internet: Is it good to get married too early?
It is a personal freedom to choose whether to marry or be single. But for early marriage and early childbearing, Huajiao just wants to say one sentence: consider carefully.
What do you think?