Introduction:
Writer Feng Jicai said: "The New Year is a festival of self-examination and wishing, which has allowed me to reorganize my life after working in the camp for more than 300 days. ”
The New Year is like a mirror that reflects our inner world. We look back on the past year and look forward to the new year.
In the new year, I wrote four sentences to myself, and I felt sober after reading them.
1.Material consumption, stay awake.
Although the Chinese New Year is exciting, it also costs a lot of money. But consumption must be sober, live within your means, and don't spend money indiscriminately for the sake of face, or even overdraft in advance.
There are some things you can take a look at. If you don't need to buy it, don't buy too much and store it at home. After the New Year, you will find that you have bought too much and wasted it.
During the Chinese New Year, we should not spend a lot of money and energy to please others, and there is no need to act like a fat person and invite others to dinner.
When sealing red envelopes, you should also look at your actual ability. Don't compare, just be the best version of yourself.
In fact, Chinese New Year is a time of intense social interaction. During the Chinese New Year, many people will gather and organize various gatherings to eat and drink, thinking that this is their connection.
In fact, people who really live comfortably do not live like this, but spend the least amount of energy and live the most comfortable life.
Therefore, we should be light on material things, consume rationally, and live a comfortable year.
2. The highest way to live is to subtract from the circle.
The more comfortable people are, the more they refuse some gatherings during the Chinese New Year and hide from people's sight.
Maybe young people always feel that the more programs and the more fulfilling they are during the Chinese New Year, the better their mood will be.
But when you reach a certain age, you will understand that life is not happy just by participating in various social activities.
True happiness always lies in the satisfaction of one's own heart. People who live well actually know how to enrich their souls, subtract their lives, refuse some bubble socialization, and return to the most authentic state of life.
Even if you don't date someone else, you can simply spend this New Year with your family, and the happiness that your family gives you will always be the most precious.
We shouldn't make ourselves miserable in order to pander to others, nor should we be tired in trying to cater to others.
Instead of spending your time on people who don't deserve it, spend it on those closest to you.
3. In the new year, say goodbye to all regrets and start again.
Do you have a lot of regrets in the past year? Do you feel like you have too many things you don't do well and don't have a chance?
The past will pass.
In the new year, we all need to start anew, say goodbye to regrets, empty our hearts, let our hearts return to zero, and then adjust to a good state and work hard in the new year.
In the new year, if you have something you want to do, hurry up and do it. If you have someone you'd like to meet, don't wait. Time waits for no one, and the future is not long. We must seize the opportunity and cherish the present.
In the new year, let's work together, meet, love each other, and become a better version of ourselves.
4. In the new year, the heart is wide, and the road is wide.
There is a saying in the "Song of Relief": "The sun rises in the East China Sea and sets in the West Mountain, there is a sad day and a happy day, and when things happen, you don't know." Don't get too close to the goal, be comfortable, feel steady, receive living expenses every day, like more, like less, like less, more meat, three meals a day, coarse sweet, fine sweet. ”
I couldn't agree more.
The best attitude of a person to live is to be content, down-to-earth, relaxed, and well-lived.
Don't always frown, don't always sigh, don't always blame others, don't always look at the wrong person, but keep a good attitude, be positive and optimistic, have a good attitude, and everything will be fine.
A big heart is a blessing. No matter how much you give or take, you have to learn to receive calmly. Don't feel that fate is unfair, just go with the flow.
A lot of things in life are predestined. Gains and losses, reunion and separation, are the normal state of life. Let go of obsessions, don't care too much, keep an open mind, and look at everything with an open mind. Only with this kind of life, you won't be too tired.