Author Yi Nian Xing asked: Is it possible to have love for anything? Angels and vampires can't be together, can they?
Response from a Mindwalker:True love is like the fragrance of flowers that can permeate every corner of life. This love is a natural phenomenon when the flower matures. It is a natural release of pure energy and aroma. This love comes from the heart, even from the human soul. If there is such love, life will be beautiful. But most of the time, the average person is not such love. Worldly encounters are often not true love – they are basically in the mind of love and the desire to be loved. Their so-called love is actually the desire of the mind, not real love. True love is outward, and that love is inward—even if he or she wants to love, wants to give it—and is a need directed at him or her: he or she has"Giving"needs. And true love is no longer a need, it is something that is not needed but is still there.
The so-called love of the world is nothing more than the emergence or overlap of two needs - the need to give and the need to be given. When a person has a need to give, he often feels that he is loving someone, when in fact, he is not aware of the nature of his love. When he has the need to be given, he realizes that he has the need to be loved. In fact, this kind of love is still an exchange of needs or desires. That's one of the reasons why one who loves or is loved – who should be happy – is still so miserable. Because they are only in the need of the self, and most of them are unaware. The need to give and the desire to be given - the desire of the mind - makes love evolve into a relationship: this relationship becomes a bond in the so-called love, and at the same time becomes a kind of rope. If you enter into such love, which you are unaware of, then most of you will be in distress. It's like a fly falling into a spider's web. This kind of love is purely a trap of the mind, because your so-called love is in essence in the intrigue of the mind. Sooner or later, this kind of love will make you feel tired. But true love from the heart and soul can only make people feel free, open, and relaxed. If a love makes you nervous, I dare say it's not really love. The obvious sign of true love is that love makes a person completely and completely free and relaxed. If your love is creating tension for you, you should realize that this is not love, it is purely a cosmetic manifestation of selfish desires. I have met many old men and women in the countryside, they don't have much brains or culture, but they love each other very much all their lives, they only feel happiness, no tiredness and pain - I dare say that their love comes purely from the heart and soul, that is not the mind. And more and more modern people's love comes from the mind - this is why love is fleeting in modern society, and the marriage change rate is so high. They are not love at all, but purely a need of the mind: a meeting of the need to give and the need to be given. When this need is satisfied, sooner or later it has to look for a new need or satisfaction. This is inevitable, because the mind has always been a kind of guy who likes the new and hates the old and constantly satisfies his selfish desires.
If the love in your life or in your marriage – is from the mind, is an encounter between the need to give and the need to be given, then I dare say that this love alone is not enough. And sooner or later, such marriages will be in danger. Some people may ask, what exactly is love? It's something you can't see or touch, can you eat it with love? In fact, love is something that cannot be seen or touched, but it does exist. Different people can define love differently. A thousand people will have a thousand definitions of love. But love is not the definition. Love is non-defined. It has been said that love is an ability, an ability to take responsibility for the life of the other person. It may seem right – but it's mindful. My statement is the opposite: love is not an ability, love is a responsibility for which no one is responsible, love is an ability that is not an ability. When you first say that love is a power, then love comes in first"Requirements:"。Love becomes a requirement, a condition. And true love is precisely unrequirement, non-conditional. Because any requirement or condition is only the fulfillment of the desire of the ego of the mind. Therefore, love cannot be turned into an ability, it should become a nature. You can't enter into marriage with requirements, conditions, or purposes and enter into love – but you bring them into with power, and then love or marriage will soon go wrong. Because you have brought impurities into the vessels that give birth to love. If so, love or marriage is tiring, even painful – because it is a repression or transformation of the ego. And true love is not to modify you, but to be you. True love does not change anywhere in you, but comes to discover any of your pressures. Well, dear lady, when you ask"With love, it's okay to do anything"Let me first determine that your love is not really a natural release from the scent of the spirit, but a need of the mind to love and be loved. To examine your love, to see if it is real, to see if it comes from your mind, or from your heart, or from your spirit? Okay, that's all for that. Think about it. Then listen to me for the next one.
You say"Angels and vampires can't be together, can they? "Let me start by saying that there are no pure angels in the world, and there are no pure vampires. Everything is a mix of angels and vampires. Who does not suck the nourishment of the blood of others to generate or grow himself? Angels are also absorbing a certain amount of external energy. It's not that angels and vampires can't be together, but in reality angels and vampires are often together. Their struggle, at the same time, constitutes their existence. There are no angels or vampires, just the blood-sucking side of a person facing his angelic side. Angels cannot kill all the devils, because if the angels kill all the devils, then the angels will cease to exist. In the same way, the devil cannot kill all the angels, and if all the angels die, then all the devils will also die. The struggle between the devil and the angels is what constitutes life in heaven and earth.
Many people in marriage are considered to be angels meeting demons. So after their struggle, when they found that neither could conquer the other, they chose to flee from the other. In fact, one simply cannot leave the devil completely, because that devil is also in your heart, in your consciousness. In fact, it is often not the real devil who appears, but the resurrection of the devil in your heart. Or maybe the other person activates the devil in your heart, and at the same time you activate the devil in the other person - this marriage or the struggle in life is not a struggle between angels and demons, but a struggle between two people with the devil within themselves. The devil doesn't actually fight angels, it loves angels. The reason why a devil is fighting that angel is in essence fighting the devil element in that angel. The essence of the fundamental struggle is: the devil's struggle with the devil or the angel's struggle with the angels - not the devil's struggle with the angels. There is an angelic element in the devil, and there is an element of the devil in the angels - the two of them can fight each other, and there is also an element of mutual cooperation. The whole situation of the struggle is one in which the same elements of one act intolerably with the same elements of the other.
Dear Madam, you say that angels fight against the devil - when you fight him, it is your angel who fights with his devil? Or is your devil fighting against his devil? Are you not the devil in your struggle? That's actually the devil in your angel who is resurrecting, and the devil element of your angel is fighting against his devil component. The whole situation is that there is an element of the devil in the angels, and there is an element of angels in the devil - and the basic factor of struggle is that the same elements of both sides are fighting each other. People often have the illusion that angels and angels are the same kind and easy to get along with; The devil and the devil are of the same kind, and they get along well; In fact, on the contrary, the same ingredients are antagonistic and mutually exclusive. In your eyes, you feel that he is a devil - the essence of which is that the devil part within you activates or casts the devil part within him: and so the devil begins to fight. Moreover, the inner components of a person can be transformed into each other - once the conditions are met, angels can become demons, and likewise demons can become angels. There are no pure angels in this world, and likewise, there are no pure devils. It's all a mix. The basic struggle between two people is the struggle of their inner demonic element. In fact, you think you are good, he is the devil - the essence is nothing more than this: your devil is too weak, and his devil is too strong......There is no such thing as a pure angel, he is a pure devil. He is very bad in your eyes, maybe he is very kind in the eyes of others.
The essence of marriage only provides a vessel for the soul. But what kind of microphysical or microchemical changes will occur in the mind and heart, emotion and emotion in the container......Everything is most basic not on the vessel, but on the molecules in the two vessels: the man's mind and the woman's mind. When you are overwhelmed and exhausted by your married life, it is in fact not just the fault of the vessel and your role - it is for you a great reason. When people are hurt or in a sad environment, they always project the negative energy of the hurt outside, and subconsciously in order to protect their own hearts, their injured hearts or spirits always look for reasons in other people's bodies and other people's soul kingdoms. You've been hurt and you always feel like it's somebody else's fault – you're a pure victim. But the essence of it is that a part of you still becomes your destroyer. In you, the wounded individual, you yourself have been hurting yourself, unconsciously, unconsciously – in some ways, one part of yourself has killed another part of yourself. Throughout the process of being hurt, without your own involvement: about your ......Nothing will happen! How can you say that you are not responsible at all for this injury yourself? First of all you have the primary responsibility, in my opinion. All external changes are caused by your internal changes: only the subtle changes in your inner can change greatly on the outside; A small change within you can only change a big thing on the outside. In the same way, what happens to you on the outside is likely to be a big conspiracy within you – and people often do it: you are plotting against yourself and you don't know it. You can sometimes fall into your own traps. And the whole process of getting out of your pain is the whole process of yourself cracking that secret. You have to crack the code of your life or marital misery – all the knots of life or emotion that you tie to yourself. You're always the main maker of the pimple: the bell is still the one who ties the bell - so it's up to you to do the work. You've fallen into confusion or a circle, you've become blind, you've become a smart fool ......Come, come, let me help you crack these secrets. Please let me clear those messy ropes for you. I'm not here to help you untie the ropes in your hands, I'm only here to help you untie the ropes in your head. Well, my friend: remember my words – all your outward changes are a reflection and reaction to your inner changes. You meet the devil outside – it also means that you meet the devil inside you. Any hardship in life, big or small, is the best opportunity for you to learn to love and live - to find the activity and regularity of your body's inner factors through this bad in your current life, through this change in your outer life, and ......Cracking others, the essence of which is cracking yourself! Come, let the unhappiness of this marriage grow for yourself: come and let yourself grow spiritually. A friend in my life, a colleague I used to have, a woman I loved. Wishing you a happy life and a happy self! Think you're an angel and he's ...... devilIn fact, the essence of any person is the same, and the essence of the truth is that there are no angels and no devils - everything is a mixture of inner and outer things. Come and be aware of the devil within you and also the angel within others - let your whole heart dance in harmony with his complete heart. Mountains and rivers give you blessings, deep blessings.