Use all your focus and energy on yourself

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-22

Blizzard.

It is rumored that this time the snowfall in the country is the largest.

A swipe of Tik Tok. It's all about snow, and there are volunteers who go to highways and provincial roads to deliver warmth.

There are out-of-town truck drivers who complain about inaction.

Don't complain. Not to mention outside the city, the roads in the city are frozen, and it is no longer snow, but ice mounds, which cannot be shoveled or melted, and the key is that the snow has been falling.

My cousin pulled an excavator to Qingzhou for construction, and when he returned, he was still 10 kilometers away from home, and he had been blocked for a day and a night.

I'm still driving in the morning and evening.

Fortunately, there are almost no cars on the road.

Mainly, it's close to home, just across the road.

Walking, I'm cold.

What about cycling? I'm worried about picking up, I haven't ridden for more than half a year, the tires are out of gas, can I ride a motorcycle?

Cycling, not motorbikes.

The bike was in the snow and very stable.

Motorcycles, battery cars, no.

I've experimented with this.

In the winter of the previous year, the last few stops in Shandong where I rode were all sub-zero, icy and snowy.

My daughter sent a message asking me if the bus from Yishui to Jinan was suspended?

I said, it must stop, even if it doesn't stop, you can't go, it's too dangerous.

She said I wanted to go back to school by the 23rd.

I said, this weather, absolutely not.

She said I wanted to go into town and get my glasses fixed.

I asked, how to come?

She said, with my sister-in-law. (My sister).

I said, no.

She said that her car was a 4WD and was fine. (BMW X6).

I said, "It's all for nothing."

As soon as the snow fell, the herding crowd and the pickup group were particularly excited, and they went out to rescue, some pulled large trucks, some pulled ambulances, in fact, it was high-risk.

Whether the car is slipping in the snow or not has little to do with the number of drives.

It has the most to do with one thing.

Snow tires. Our car, whether it is a sedan or an off-road vehicle, as long as we do not change the snow tires, we can't go in the Northeast in winter, and we must replace the snow tires.

Why is the off-road vehicle, as if it is awesome in the snow?

Because, now the mainstream off-road tires are KO2, all-terrain, all-weather, and have a certain snow grip, but there is still a long way to go from real snow tires.

At that time, we drove the border line of the three eastern provinces, drove an off-road vehicle, and all of them were off-road tires, and we couldn't walk when we arrived at Changbai Mountain, we couldn't climb the slope, we couldn't go downhill, there was no way, and we bought four snow tires locally, which was a perfect solution.

The most exciting time in the off-road group is when it rains heavily and snows heavily.

They all went out. Look for prey waiting to be rescued.

Don't want money. It's purely an off-road experience.

I hurriedly called ** to my sister and reprimanded her, what kind of weather is this? In addition, the road from the township to the county seat is blocked, how do you get here? There are so many ...... on the road

I found out that it was my daughter who made an appointment with a classmate, one was to wear glasses, the other was to watch a movie, and I wanted to borrow her car, so she said that she wanted to send it.

I said, then you two wait at home, I'll go.

I took the provincial road first, the traffic was not completely paralyzed, but the big truck was parked on both sides of the road, and the speed could not be raised, it was about the same as walking, and it was necessary to drill back and forth.

I decided to take the trail.

The small road, which is the village road, has less tractors in this season, and the road surface is basically still in a state of snow and has not been pressed.

It's still relatively easy to run.

I went to my sister's house first, and the children were all playing with their mobile phones, one for each person.

A bunch of eggs are beating eggs.

I said, I don't understand addition, subtraction, multiplication and division within 10, and I still beat eggs?

A few, laughing and quacking.

Four women, none of them are serious, either three, or that, the only one who has gone to school, wears glasses, and within a few years of being released, she saw me and respected me the most, because she worked for me.

Seeing me, the glasses hurriedly got up and gave me the cards.

I said, fighting with you will affect my IQ.

After this fight, I broke up, because I arranged for my sister to pick up my daughter at my ex-father-in-law's house, and I accompanied the three girls to brag.

What did the glasses get in back then?

Make money. Coins of the past, coins of the present.

For example, the money you bought with the 77777 serial number on **, you use the money detector to see that it is all real.

Actually, it's all handmade.

It's just that only the serial number is made.

It's not a make, it's an adaptation.

This kind of technical talents, mostly gathered in the southeast of Shandong, serve customers? It gathers in the Central Plains, and most of the people who sell collectible coins in the live broadcast room are Henan people......

When he was released from prison, he was also rewarded with 200,000.

said that he didn't dare to deposit in his own bank, because he had a fine that he hadn't paid, and the deposit was swept away, and asked if he could let me here?

I refused. With her, I have two similar colleagues, both of whom have nowhere to go after they came out, and I have taken them in temporarily, either to help me take care of the affairs of the countryside, or to help me take care of the warehouse, and after getting along for a long time, I feel that everyone goes in is actually caused by personality.

Dare to challenge. What high-voltage line red line, it doesn't matter.

There is a girl who is a non-sucker, she sucked 36 million by herself, sat in prison for two years, packed it in my warehouse, and stopped for half a year? Half a year later, I went back to my old job.

The glasses are a little better, and I didn't make any more money, but the things she made made me put a question mark.

During the epidemic, I suddenly hugged a baby.

I'm convinced she wasn't born.

That's what she told me, you can find a supermarket employee or housewife, give birth to a baby, and you can get everything for 200,000 yuan, including the formalities and ......

She just plays weird things like that.

I asked her, what are you doing now?

She said that she was doing a homestay in Rizhao.

How's the business, I asked?

Not bad, she said.

I asked, is there a girl in the homestay?

She said, all the beautiful girls in Shandong have gone to me.

I said, get one for me.

She said, "Just go."

I said, don't fool me.

She asked, "Is your bookstore still in its original location?"

I said, I've moved, I'm going to play.

She said, OK. My sister brought her daughter here, with a big bag and a small bag, and she was determined to leave ...... way

I told the three girls that it's okay to go out and hook up with men, what's the point of a few old ladies squatting here to play cards? Go out and get some money to spend.

Laughing and rattling.

I asked, "Have you ever gone into the city?" I'm piggybacking on it.

The northeastern woman said that she was going into the city.

She is a beauty shop, she is in the beauty shop, her ancestors are from our township, there are relatives here, she grew up in the Northeast since she was a child, she has an authentic Northeast accent, she is definitely a good hand at soaking men, not three, not introduced, only talk about feelings, and only talk to honest men, it is a serious talk, and it does not give you a chance to touch, and all the cents in the man's hand are hooked up, everyone generally thinks that the best girl will fish men, in fact, the best way to fish men is the green massage shop, men think she is a serious person, If you can talk about feelings, she will really talk to you.

She has a lot of Kuaishou fans, and there should be sixty or seventy thousand.

I was polite, she said so, I need to take her to her den in the township first, and then go back to the county seat, where she lives is a family building in the township, very old, I don't know if it is a real relative or a fake relative, I didn't see the owner, the bed is a traditional wooden bed, the quilt is a big flower quilt, no quilt cover, the quilt mouth is a little greasy, there are more than a dozen pairs of shoes densely placed under the bed, there are leftovers and uncleaned dishes and chopsticks on the coffee table, the toilet lid in the bathroom is cracked, there is no central heating in the room, and there is a charcoal stove.

It's hard to associate her with this environment.

At night, just lie under this quilt?

She packed her shoes and clothes, and my daughter and I waited for nearly half an hour......

The girl was still very curious about her, and asked, is it snowing very heavily over there? Are there any Siberian tigers in the mountains? Is it a family that all live on the kang?

She answered enthusiastically one by one.

After answering, I have to add a sentence, high-achieving students, have the opportunity to go to my hometown to play.

There is one thing that is particularly good about the people of the Northeast.

In terms of eating and drinking, he is absolutely willing, willing to himself, and willing to his friends.

On the way back, I heard her playing **, booking a room, letting people take wine, what 1573, she was going to invite us two to dinner, she booked a room on Meituan, and the boss called **, saying that it was not open today, and she changed another one.

I asked, is this to invite us to dinner?

She said, yes, how can you sit on it for the New Year.

I said, just send me a red envelope.

She said, I don't have your WeChat yet, just add it.

I said, your sister-in-law is very strict, and when she sees a woman, she will delete it.

She asked, really?

I said, my daughter is here, can I tell a lie?!

She said, sit together.

I said, I really don't want to go, my daughter has something to do, and I'm still at work.

She said, I'm all set.

I said, go eat with your boyfriends.

She said, "None of them, or ever?"

Return, it's almost dark, we can't take the path, we can only take the provincial road, follow the car in front of us slowly, before entering the city, completely blocked, can not advance, can not retreat, can only sit in the car chat.

She said, Mr. Lang, can you help me take a look, is this matter reliable?

I said, don't trick me.

She said, I'll trick you and kill the whole family.

I said, no, make such a big oath.

My daughter poked me with her finger in the back, she probably thought I was talking too harsh to these women, in fact, who and what kind of food, I deliberately teased them like this, if you respect them very much? They will treat you as a ** routine.

Said it was her boss who pulled her in.

There are 49 people in the group.

There is already a risk warning.

I said, Tencent has reminded you, this is a capital game.

She said, I invested 30,000 yuan.

I said, I'm coming back soon.

She said, it's enough, my boss voted for it, many people in Yishui are playing this, my boss should have invested three or four hundred thousand, and there is a retired president of the X line, and he put more than 1 million into it.

I said, there are many mentally handicapped in the president.

She asked, is it reliable?

I said, don't play dumb for me.

She said, I really don't understand.

I said, either you want the money back, or you should throw it away, Tencent has reminded you.

She asked me, maybe it's just to confirm the nature of the game, she's not stupid, maybe the boss patted her chest and promised, the loss is his, and she relies on the boss to eat, it is impossible to apply for a refund, but it doesn't affect her to get the money back, she will let the guests into the game.

sent her down, and insisted on inviting us two to dinner.

Show me her mobile phone, and make an appointment with the hotel owner for a room and standard, five people**, maybe she has to shout two, I don't know who to call ......

I said, I'm really at work, and my daughter is really fine.

Spare us both.

Let's go. The girl said that every friend of my sister-in-law is very suitable to be the heroine.

Why, I asked?

She said that they are very sassy and very individual.

I said, it's all social scraps, you have to watch it as a negative teaching material, if it weren't for the live broadcast becoming popular, your sister-in-law would have no difference from her, your sister-in-law didn't graduate from junior high school and went out to work, serving dishes, doing nail art, when she was selling, when she just went out, a young girl, what about when she came back? The hair is dyed yellow, and the big flower arm is tattooed, if you want to say that your sister-in-law is stronger than them, it is that your sister-in-law has a very good background, people are not bad, not yin, once people are yin, it is very terrifying, these girls are all masters of yin people.

She asked, just like this big sister in the Northeast, who can she trick?

I said, she doesn't know how to do tricks, and the people she can do tricks are either small bosses, similar to your uncle, who has a little money, does engineering, and has no culture. Either the head of the department, it stands to reason that there is no shortage of women in this kind of person, why are they fascinated by this kind of woman? We don't know why, but several local celebrities have basically successfully married this kind of person.

She asked, Dad, did you go for a hair transplant?

I said, not yet.

From the back, she said, it felt much, much denser than before.

I said, your grandfather gave the result of **.

She said, "I don't believe it."

I said, back then, your grandfather said that when you look at your scalp, it will be black and black.

She said that my grandfather himself was running out of hair.

I said, I take the medicine **, finasteride + minol.

She asked, can I eat it?

I said, no, this restricts the secondary synthesis of male hormones.

She said, "Look, I'm also thin in front of me."

I said, I don't think so.

She said, it's just very thin.

I said, you can go for planting, now the technology is very mature, you don't need to shave your hair.

She said she was afraid of pain.

I said, it doesn't hurt at all.

She said, "I won't eat with you in the evening."

I said, "Okay, where do you live?" Grandpa's house? My home? Or a hotel?

She said, I don't want to go to my grandparents' house, mainly because there is no topic to talk about, and they always ask questions, so I am afraid of society.

I said, live in my house, your aunt is not here, she has gone to Hong Kong, and your brother and I are at home.

She said, "I live with my classmates.

I said, go to your grandparents' house, the quilts and mattresses are all new, and there is heating, your grandparents are different from the past, and now people are busy filming Douyin, so they don't have the heart to ask you.

She said, I'm afraid they'll record me on TikTok.

I said, no, I'll send you and your luggage first, anyway, you have to go over to report, if you watch a movie or go shopping, you can call your brother, he plays games at home every day.

She said, okay.

I said, then, you decide where to live, it's convenient anyway, you can live everywhere, it's your own home.

I sent her to the entrance of the community, and my father and mother came out to greet her.

I called my son again and asked him to gather at his grandparents' house.

I went back to the bookstore and worked.

After a while, I called **, saying that my grandparents had to give her a red envelope, and in addition, I started gossiping again, is Wulian's home heated? How many red envelopes did grandpa give for the Chinese New Year? What did your stepfather grow in his greenhouse?

I said, go out to the movies with your brother, don't you need glasses?

She said that when she went downstairs just now, the wind was too strong, and she felt that the whole person was frozen in an instant.

I said, then you wait there, I'll send the equipment, your dad is useless for anything else, study warmth, absolutely professional.

Functional wear, the most bullish and the most reasonable, is the outdoor group.

I also learned from them.

Three-layer dressing method.

Innermost, sweat wicking layer, wool socks, thermal underwear.

The biggest advantage of wool is that it doesn't sweat snugly, and it doesn't smell, and it still keeps warm.

middle layer, insulation, fleece or down.

The outermost layer, jacket, windproof.

I'm not like them, my torso doesn't feel the temperature obviously, and I can wear shorts on a cold day, but my hands, feet, neck, and head are afraid of the cold.

Lin Weiwei helped me improve, waterproof wool hat, neck cover.

I mostly wear two layers of gloves.

Innermost, tactical gloves, half-fingered.

The outer layer is knitted with wool.

When I climbed the Great Wall, it was the coldest season, and the cold wind was raging, so I could easily do it.

I asked my colleague to send the jacket, gloves, and scarf, all of which were brand new and I hadn't worn them once, and Lin Weiwei came recently and gave me two sets of jackets.

After finishing this, I started steaming potatoes + beef.

Potatoes are a staple food.

Beef is protein.

Vegetables, I eat more salad bowls, finished fresh vegetables.

It stands to reason that there should be someone who shouted at me to beat the eggs, probably because of the heavy snow, and they are all trapped at home......

Here comes a snowman.

Little lawyer. I feel a little sad.

When we meet, let's have a big hug first.

I said, "I feel like my breasts are bigger."

She was surprised: Do you really feel big?

I said, yes.

Actually, I'm joking.

She said, I just went to the doctor in the fourth year of junior high school, it is indeed old, the doctor said that there are some growths, may need surgery, I was scared for several days and did not sleep well, I always feel that it may not be a good thing.

I said, it's not a good thing, you have to face it, in addition, breast cancer, you can't die, didn't I write it before, our generation, everyone will get cancer, cancer itself is a geriatric disease, we all have to be psychologically prepared in advance, and the reality of coexistence with chronic diseases, this chronic disease may be hemorrhoids, or it may be three highs, it may also be AIDS, it may also be cancer, as long as you don't have pancreatic cancer, advanced lung cancer, don't worry.

She said, but, I searched Yao Beina and them, their medical conditions are better than ours, right? The physical examination is more intensive than ours, right?

I said, when I had surgery, I climbed the stairs every day, walking next to the floor, I remember that the ninth floor was breast cancer, and in the afternoon, they all came out to let the wind out, they were wearing single-layer clothes, and they didn't care about anything**No**, there were cuts, there were ready to cut, there were those in their 60s, there were those in their 20s, some just got them, and some came for a re-examination, you will find that this is a very common chronic disease, don't be afraid, what's more, aren't you just hyperplasia?

She said, I'm afraid of going under the knife.

I said, don't be afraid, you lie down, count to three, open your eyes, it's over, this kind of thing, you ask me, that's the most appropriate, I had nine surgeries in three days, and I still need to do psychological counseling at first, and then I can counsel other patients.

She said, I suddenly understood why many people are conservative.

I said, in fact, everyone needs to do surgery for psychological expectation management, many diseases are scared off by the word surgery, scared to find home remedies, you mentioned several celebrities, including Yu Juan, the author of "This Life is Unfinished", they all followed the same path, don't believe in the hospital, Yu Juan is a university teacher in Fudan, and in the later stage, he still chose metaphysics, what hunger did he believe**, economist Ye Tan, is currently taking a similar route, women, especially famous women, often run towards temples or Taoist temples after they get seriously ill.

Scare yourself yourself.

The young lawyer said that he has been searching for the risk of failed surgery recently.

I said, tooth extraction may kill people, don't believe it, you search, any surgery has a fatal probability, but what, this is not a reason for us to avoid surgery, I think similar things, to analyze rationally, the core is the pros and cons trade-off, positive**, what is the good result? What is the bad outcome? Conservative**, what is the good outcome? What is the bad outcome? Then analyze the probabilities and take an optimal value.

Fear, not solving the problem.

She said, "In the past few days, I've been wondering, why am I in this situation? Lack of exercise? Eating too much meat? Sulking?

I said, don't think nonsense, there are four reasons for getting cancer, one is the environmental trigger, which is mostly the chemical environment. The second is genetic inheritance, which is the most important. The third is God's random picking. Fourth, I am older. It has nothing to do with exercise, and it has nothing to do with good mood, athletes get more cancer. Besides, don't you have it yet? What's the hurry?!

It enlightened me and made me laugh.

It's to scare yourself.

Say you're going to jump rope.

I said, at this time, you are the easiest to develop the habit of exercising, because you are afraid from the bottom of your heart, you can use skipping rope as chemotherapy, although you haven't gotten it yet.

That's what I thought, she said.

I said that people can only hold on to three situations, one is when they survive, similar to your current state. Second, when seeking wealth, if you finish jumping, there will be 3,000 yuan for you immediately, and 99% of people can hold on to it for one dollar at a time. The third is when you really enjoy it, for example, those people in the stadium are uncomfortable if you don't play for a day.

She said, you always said before, let everyone take a skipping rope as 1 yuan, I as a spectator, I can tell you, why everyone is ineffective, because everyone knows, no one will give it if you jump, the assumption is not valid, you don't believe it, naturally you can't hypnotize yourself, you take yourself as an example is wrong, everyone gives you money not because you jump rope, but because Ai Lang is ...... jumping rope

I said, now, whoever gives me 30 yuan, I will give him 3333 jumps, and I will hold his advertisement and record a small **, this time, that time.

She asked, what do you think about misdiagnosis?

I said, biopsy diagnosis, the probability of misdiagnosis is very low, as long as you are not allowed to do further examination, you can rest assured that the New Year, when you feel that there is always liquid flowing out of Mimi, the taste is not very good, there is a certain dull pain or irregular lumps, you have to be careful, let me tell you this, whether it is cancer or not, you can feel it yourself, because it has a foreign body feeling, this matter, you have to trust intuition.

If so, what advice do you have, she asked?

I said, I have two suggestions, first, go as high as you can, go as high as you can, go to Tianjin instead of Jinan, and go to Beijing without Tianjin. Second, pin your hope on yourself, this hope is a super learning ability, the doctor has to see countless patients a day, he doesn't care about each patient, is he not attentive, in fact? Each patient has unique characteristics, such as complications, underlying diseases, and autoimmune conditions, and you have to learn yourself as an expert, and you will find that many senior patients are more professional than experts. I'm sick myself, I like to do this, I must understand the relevant knowledge thoroughly, and even what wire sealing knife to use** will say hello in advance.

My husband can't come back, because my husband has a special job, and it's good to be able to come back twice a year to visit the house.

Suddenly asked me, will there be a war?

I said, there was an incident recently that touched me a lot, do you know xxx? He and I are good friends in the gym, he is in the emergency department, as soon as there is special weather and special conditions, he must immediately rush back to his post, and there are people at all levels on duty 24 hours a day, and the big screen has been on live broadcast, for example, on this snowy day, their work state of live broadcast lasted for at least 48 hours, all night.

What am I expressing?

There is no need to worry about security issues, social issues, at least for the rest of our lives, peace must be the absolute leitmotif, and there will be no hiccups in the world.

This is really a once-in-a-lifetime ** era for ordinary people.

You're not picky. That's because, you haven't read history!

I also have an idea of using all my focus and energy on myself.

Don't study topics that are beyond the scope of our abbot!

February** Dynamic Incentive Program

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