Cheating men don't like all kinds of mistresses, and they want all kinds of mistresses.
When encountering some juniors, cheating men will also choose to take the initiative to leave, the most obvious of which is that the possessive mistress, the cheating man finds the possessiveness of the mistress, and may choose to change the mistress first, if he finds that he can't change the junior, the cheating man will choose to stay away.
Therefore, wives need to understand the mistress, know themselves and the other and know the problems of the mistress.
Then cleverly designed to let the cheating man discover the horror of the mistress.
The cheating man wants to escape the divorce affair and end it with the mistress, so that the affair can really end.
Like the previous situation with the original match,
The cheating man and the mistress have been together for more than a month, and the original wife found out.
At that time, the cheating man and the mistress had a hot fight, and the cheating man also said that he was in love with the mistress.
The mistress is also very good to the cheating man, the two of them can't do without each other's appearance, and even the wife feels that they can't be separated.
The wife had a conflict with the cheating man and threatened to divorce, but the cheating man was indifferent.
And he said very directly that his wife said that as long as his wife didn't make trouble, he would not divorce.
He also has feelings for his wife and children, although he loves Xiaosan, but he will not divorce for Xiaosan.
If the wife accepts the existence of the mistress, she can maintain the marriage, and the mistress does not want to cheat on the man's money, so the cheating man can continue to give the money to his wife.
The wife has thought about divorce, but the reality is that it is more beneficial for her not to divorce.
She has been married for more than ten years and has been a housewife for more than ten years.
Before I got married, I also worked as a tally clerk in a supermarket, but now I am looking for a job again, and it is not only difficult but also impossible to give my children the same standard of living.
She herself has a certain resistance to re-entering social work, after all, she has been out of society for so long.
The original wife's maiden family conditions are not good, and she has no friends, she has always regarded the cheating man, children and marriage as her all, and she has given everything.
If she really divorced, she had a feeling of losing everything, whether it was for her future life, for the life of her children, or for her previous efforts, this original partner was more inclined not to divorce, and finally chose not to divorce.
She originally thought that Xiao San would always be sweet and sweet with the cheating man, and she had to suffer in this marriage of three, and the result was beyond her expectations.
This original partner said to Su Yue that the cheating man began to look for the mistress every day and became unwilling to go to the mistress.
After going home, I didn't hold my phone and chatted non-stop, but I didn't want to look at my phone.
It even seems that the relationship between husband and wife is still being repaired, and this original partner doesn't understand what a cheating man means.
Until the junior gave this original partner a **, accusing the original partner of dominating the cheating man, and said a lot of ugly things.
It means that the original partner must have used some shady means to let the cheating man go home every day.
The angry appearance of the mistress made the original partner even more confused, what happened to the cheating man and the mistress?
Su Yue understood the situation, and the analysis she gave was that there should be a problem on Xiao San's side.
At the beginning of the affair, the cheating man had fantasies about the mistress.
What Xiao San showed was also deliberately disguised and beautified.
The cheating man may have feelings for the mistress, but not to the extent that he is willing to give everything for the mistress.
But the mistress's demand for cheating men is like this, and his possessiveness for cheating men is beyond the tolerance of cheating men.
Xiao San regarded herself as the main palace, and in the name of true love, began to restrain the life of cheating men.
When a cheating man feels that there are more constraints in an extramarital affair than in marriage.
And Xiao San is even more extreme and unreasonable, he is not only painful, but also fearful of Xiao San.
Therefore, the cheating man will choose to take the initiative to alienate the mistress and want to leave the mistress.
It's not that a cheating man loves a mistress, so he will always be with the mistress.
The cheating man loves himself more, and between himself and the mistress, he will definitely choose himself.
This essence is nothing, just a cloak of love to each according to their needs.
And many juniors actually have certain psychological problems.
It is not for nothing that they can intervene in other people's marriages without morality and use all their means to ruin other people's marriages.
Wives need to understand the situation, find the weakness of the affair, and strive for a fatal blow.
In the end, Su Yue wanted to say that most cheating men are really not love brains.
It's not that the mistress is like, cheating men love the mistress, and they must be with the mistress.
They actually prefer extramarital affairs that don't get him in trouble and can be maintained without paying a price.
The possessiveness of the mistress is too strong, strong enough to affect the normal life of the cheating man.
Even makes the cheating man feel very depressed, and feels that the extramarital affair continues, he is the one who is restrained and has no enjoyment of the pain, he will take the initiative to stay away from the mistress, no matter how much love he showed before, as long as the mistress exposes this face, the cheating man will not hesitate and take the initiative to end the extramarital affair.
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