Everyone has a small abacus in their hearts, and it is instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.
So even if it's the person next to him, if it's better for him to calculate you, he will calculate you.
In the same bed, different dreams, even if the person next to the pillow is calculating something, it is difficult for you to know if he doesn't say it.
Scarlett had been exposed to an extramarital affair case before, and cheating men are especially calculating
At first, the original wife came to Scarlett, saying that her husband suspected her of cheating, but she did not have an extramarital affair, but her husband did not believe it and quarreled with her not only at home.
even went out to drink with friends, and told his friends that he was green, because this friend and the original partner are also a little friendly, and I think the original partner is not this kind of person.
asked the original partner, and the original partner found out that her husband told others everywhere that she had someone outside.
Scarlett heard what the original partner said, and thought it was very strange.
It's strange that her husband suspects her of cheating without evidence.
It's that her husband actually told the people around him that most men wouldn't do this.
Because men have a good face, he can't say this kind of thing when he is green by his wife.
Even if it is determined that his wife is cheating and there is conclusive evidence in his hand, most men will choose to deal with it secretly, not tell anyone, and then directly force his wife to divorce, and publicize his wife's cheating by himself, which is a very rare case.
So Scarlett also asked this original partner, does her husband usually like to tell his friends about his family.
Or is it that men do not value reputation and some privacy.
The feedback from this original partner is that her husband usually doesn't do this
Sometimes husbands and wives quarrel, and the cheating man has to ask his wife to cooperate with him to pretend to be a loving husband and wife in front of outsiders.
I won't show that I am unhappy in my marriage or have a bad relationship with my wife.
So this cheating man is very abnormal, Scarlett asked this original partner, her husband's recent and other anomalies.
This original partner said, except for the suspicion that the original partner was cheating, there was no other abnormality.
Scarlett asked about this original partner, it was so noisy, and this original partner's answer aroused more suspicion from Scarlett.
Her husband separated from his original partner, moved to another bedroom by himself, and came home late every day, and when he got home, he went into the bedroom, basically didn't come out, and his wife didn't dare to call.
Sometimes, her husband doesn't go home, and he has to tell his wife that he doesn't go home because he doesn't want to see his wife, and he is depressed and drinks with friends, so he sleeps at his friend's house.
Scarlett listened to what the original partner said about these situations and gave the original partner an idea.
It's better to find a time to check her husband's phone.
Because of the state of cheating men, he is picky about his wife, separates from his wife, refuses intimate contact, and always comes home late and does not come home, and there are too many points of consistency with the cheating state, so it is not that his wife is cheating, it may be that this man is cheating.
According to the suggestion, it took more than a week to find an opportunity to check the cheating man's mobile phone, or invited the cheating man's parents to the house for dinner, and the cheating man finally came out of the bedroom and brought out the mobile phone.
The original match was to let the child take the mobile phone to play, and then take advantage of the cheating man's inattention to watch the chat software.
It turned out that the cheating man and a woman talked about various topics of cheating, which was obviously cheating to find a mistress.
The original partner went crazy directly on the spot, and in front of the parents of the cheating man, he asked the cheating man who he was talking to.
The cheating man was in a hurry to grab his mobile phone, but fortunately, the cheating man's parents were not partial, and the cheating man was forced to admit that he had cheated, but he was still very unconvinced, saying that the original partner cheated first or something.
Maybe many people, like this original partner, can't understand what it means to cheat on a man,
It's obvious that he cheated, why did he directly frame his original partner for cheating?
On the one hand, the reason is that the cheating man does this, which can be regarded as the protection of the mistress.
Because his wife will not suspect him of cheating, she will not find Xiao San and cause trouble for Xiao San.
It may be that the cheating man knows his wife, in case he is caught cheating and knows who the mistress is, the original partner is very likely to tear the mistress directly, so the cheating man protects the mistress in this way.
Another reason is that cheating men feel that they can buy time and space for cheating.
The cheating man uses his wife's cheating as an excuse to separate from his wife and get an independent space.
Under the pretext of being in a bad mood, going home late, or even not going home, also cheated to buy time.
Thinking of a more convenient development of an extramarital affair is also the reason why a cheating man frames his wife.
The last reason is to prepare for the situation after being discovered by his wife.
After this cheating man was discovered, his first reaction was to blame his wife in turn.
It is to pull his wife and himself on the same plane, creating a situation where both parties are at fault, and even the wife is at fault first.
In this way, the wives can't do anything to him, and the extramarital affair can only get by and avoid punishment.
In the end, Scarlett wants to say that many wives who have been cheated on will think that after you have an extramarital affair, your opponent is the mistress, and you need to tear each other apart with the mistress.
In fact, the hostile opponents of the wives may be cheating men, and you need to get rid of cheating men.
The junior doesn't have a chance to play, and the cheating man will calculate his wife first.
If you can't find the calculation of the cheating man, the one who suffers must be the wife.
When things go wrong, there must be demons, and wives find that cheating men are abnormal, so they must pay attention to them and don't be calculated.
If you have any emotional confusion or marital problems, you can pay attention to Scarlett and chat about the specific situation in private messages.
I'm Sijia Yin, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.