Among the ancient literati, they liked that women should be as strong as Du Shi Niang's angry treasure chest, and they also admired Meng Jiangnu's feat of crying on the Great Wall. They think it's a kind of chastity, a kind of chastity that guards a man's body. So this kind of behavior moves the world, makes men admire, and sheds a swan song for the ages.
There is also a kind of people who call themselves elegant people, they like to be romantic, they like to linger in the wind and moon field, and in the fireworks willow alley, they also appreciate those courtesans and maiko people. These women are versatile and not ordinary women. Most of these women are young ladies from declining families, or small families with a certain degree of cultivation. They were forced to sell in the Red Mansion or flow into the fireworks, but no matter where they were, they could not stop their brilliance. Some are only performing arts, not performing themselves. Some hope to meet a good person here and let her out of the sea of suffering. Many women like Red Whisk, Li Shishi and others found love.
Therefore, ancient literati and scholars often went to Fengyue places to seek spiritual sustenance. It's an appreciation, but it's also a kind of release and relief.
And modern men, on the one hand, also hope that women are his beginnings, and on the other hand, they want the other party to be as lewd as Pan Jinlian. This kind of thinking makes modern women overwhelmed, and leftover women are frequent.
Let's ask a man, do you want chastity or archway?