In June 2013, a scene on the street in Yuzhong District, Chongqing City, attracted the attention of passers-by, and an old man with gray hair said to the woman on the bench with emotion: "My daughter, why have you been like this, where have you been for so long?" ”
But no matter how emotional the old man was, the woman on the bench had dull eyes, as if she was fine, and paid no attention to the old man's words. Surprisingly, this sloppy and sluggish-looking homeless woman was actually a highly educated talent, who taught at a university after graduating with a doctorate, but suddenly resigned and disappeared for a while, and when she saw her father again, she was pregnant, and mentally disturbed, living on the streets.
The old man finds his missing daughter on the street.
What is even more surprising is that the old man once gave alms to a beggar in 2012, and that beggar was his missing daughter. It's a pity that the two didn't recognize each other at that time.
What exactly happened to her daughter during her disappearance? Why did it get to such a point?
In 1978,Yang GuoBorn. Because Yang Guo's parents have been separated from each other for a long time, when Yang Guo was born, his parents were in their 30s. Soon after Yang Guo was born, his father returned to work in other places, and Yang Guo's diet, daily life, education, etc. were all in charge of his mother, so Yang Guo was closer to his mother since he was a child.
In a blink of an eye, the former child has grown into a slim girl, and was admitted to Sichuan Medical University with excellent results. In 2003, this happy family suffered a major blow when Yang Guo's mother was in a car accident.
Yang Guo and his father hurried home, but their mother passed away due to ineffective rescue. The unexpected death of his mother hit Yang Guo hard, Yang Guo's fatherYang GuangzhongHe was even more saddened by the loss of his beloved wife, and at the same time had to comfort his languishing daughter.
Fortunately, Yang Guo continued to return to school after adjusting her mentality, she felt that she carried her mother's infinite expectations for herself, so she studied harder and successfully studied for graduate school after graduating from the bachelor's degree. The heavy experiments and all sorts of trifles of graduate students did not crush the girl.
Yang Guo kept cheering himself up: I must learn better, use my medical knowledge to save more people, and let my mother see my achievements in the sky.
In this way, Yang Guo was once again escorted to study for a doctorate with excellent grades and excellent **. After graduating with a Ph.D., Yang Guo worked as a lecturer at a university in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province. In Yang Guo's father's opinion, he has finally cultivated his daughter into an excellent talent, and he is also worthy of the spirit of his wife who died early. However, just when Yang Guo's father wanted to enjoy his retirement, Yitong ** broke his peaceful life.
In 2012, Yang Guo's father received a ** call from Nanchang, Jiangxi, and the staff asked anxiously: "Are you Yang Guo's father?" Mr. Yang Guo hurriedly submitted his resignation application a few days ago, and now he has not been able to contact him, and we are not very clear about the specific situation. Or did Yang Guo encounter some difficulties? Do you know the situation over there? ”
Yang Guo's father was dark when he heard the other party's inquiry, and his well-behaved daughter suddenly quit her stable job? He was shocked and at a loss. I don't know about my daughter's resignation, and I have the same question as the staff, what happened to my daughter?
The next day, Yang's father rushed to Nanchang from Chongqing, and he first went to Yang Guo's residence in Nanchang, but was told by his neighbors that Yang Guo had already sold his house. When Father Yang heard the news, he was even more worried, where did his only daughter go?
After confirming that Yang Guo did not arrive at school, Yang's father fidgeted and asked Yang Guo's colleagues about some places that Yang Guo often visited, and began to search one by one, but found no trace of Yang Guo. The old man was overwhelmed by his daughter's sudden disappearance, and despite the countless possibilities in his mind, he still had the best hope that his daughter would be able to stand in front of him safely immediately. Unexpectedly, this was the beginning of Yang's father's long search for his daughter.
After searching for his daughter in Nanchang for a month to no avail, Yang Guo's father returned to Chongqing, and the first thing he did when he returned to Chongqing was to go to the police station to call the police. After learning about Yang Guo's situation, the police at the Chongqing police station put her information on the Internet. After that, Yang Guo's father began to wait endlessly.
In September 2012, Yang Guangzhong received a letter from the police station. The police told him that according to clues provided on the Internet, a woman suspected of being Yang Guo had appeared in Shanghai. When Yang Guangzhong heard the news, he rushed to Shanghai full of hope. But Yang Guangzhong was worried as soon as he arrived in Shanghai, although his daughter had appeared in Shanghai, but now she wants to find it?
Yang Guangzhong, who was looking for a woman, took out his daughter's ** and asked passers-by one in the bustling road. When a few young students passed by, someone asked, "Uncle, you are still relatively inefficient, we suggest that you put a missing person notice in a conspicuous place, which can also save time." ”
After hearing this suggestion, Yang Guangzhong deeply agreed, and hurriedly found a printing shop nearby, and made his daughter's ** and information into a missing person notice. After that, Yang Guangzhong posted his daughter's missing person notice in front of the big shopping mall and supermarket. After searching in Shanghai for more than a month, Yang Guangzhong had little money left, so he had no choice but to return to Chongqing.
After returning to Chongqing, Yang Guangzhong was even more depressed, he didn't know what had happened to his daughter, and worries, helplessness, and anxiety enveloped him. The enthusiastic neighbors around him often came to visit Yang Guangzhong, and everyone felt very uncomfortable when they saw the lonely old man waiting for his daughter alone.
Yang GuangzhongIn the Spring Festival of 2013, Yang Guo had new news. Some enthusiastic people provided clues to **, saying that they had seen a wandering woman in Guangzhou, who looked like Yang Guo. Yang Guangzhong hurriedly rushed to Guangzhou and launched a large-scale search as in Shanghai. But this time Yang Guangzhong was even more disappointed, there was no news of his daughter at all, and the family's savings were even less. Yang Guangzhong looked at the lights of thousands of homes and reunited with his family, while he walked alone in a strange city, two lines of tears flowed down his cheeks.
On June 28, 2013, Yang Guangzhong received ** again. Tell him: "On the streets of Yuzhong District, Chongqing City, there is a homeless woman whose identity information is extremely consistent with Yang Guo. According to the description of the Chongqing cleaner aunt who provided a huge clue to **, she saw a pregnant woman covered in dirt come to the tool cleaning pool of the public toilet, took off her clothes and began to wash, and then began to wash her body with water. The cleaner's aunt was deeply surprised and immediately called the police.
On the one hand, he hoped that his daughter, who had been missing for more than a year, would return to him as soon as possible, and on the other hand, when he heard the three words of a homeless woman, he had doubts in his heart, his daughter was a doctor and a professor, how could she wander on the streets?
After that, Yang Guangzhong found his daughter on the street in Yuzhong District, Chongqing, and then the opening scene appeared.
After finding his daughter, Yang Guang found that Yang Guo was pregnant, and Yang Guangzhong recalled: In 2012, he had seen his daughter on the street, and he kindly gave her 100 yuan at that time, but he didn't believe that his daughter would wander on the street anyway, so he didn't carefully distinguish the appearance of the homeless girl. Now when I stepped forward to take a closer look, I realized that it was really my daughter.
Yang GuoWith the help of Chongqing**, they sent Yang Guo to the hospital together. In the hospital, after a careful examination, Yang Guo found that she and the fetus in her womb were relatively healthy, and all indicators were normal, but Yang Guo was diagnosed with mental paranoia. Under the onset of this disease, Yang Guo did not know his father, did not have a clear understanding of his identity, his eyes were glazed, and his behavior was abnormal.
But there is still a question that has been in the center of Yang Guang: "Who is the child in his daughter's womb?" ”
These questions are becoming more and more numerous, like a mess. Fortunately, when ** was rummaging through Yang Guo's belongings, he found clues. Yang Guo had an assisted reproduction agreement in his suitcase, and the content of the agreement was: the company helped Yang Guo go to Thailand for IVF. At the bottom of the agreement, there is Yang Guo's autograph, and it reads Shenzhen Quality HealthCare Health Management***
*I immediately checked the information of this company and found that the business scope of this company written at the time of registration is health and wellness and health care consulting services. However, **with a vigilant heart, I got through this company**, and the staff in it vaguely revealed to the police disguised as consulting customers that as long as the money is in place, children are not a problem. Their company can provide IVF services and can choose the gender of the baby.
Yang Guangzhong couldn't cry after knowing that his daughter had signed an IVF agreement with an illegal company, and kept shouting: "It's all my fault, it's all my fault, I shouldn't force her, I didn't expect her to do this, I hurt her." ”
It turned out that Yang Guangzhong had been in the field for work reasons and was absent from Yang Guo's growth. After the death of Yang Guo's most trusted mother, Yang Guo was deeply affected and devoted himself to scientific research, not caring much about his private life. Yang Guangzhong saw that his daughter was getting older and had a successful career but had no one to date, so he began to urge.
Yang GuangzhongAt first, Yang Guo only politely rejected Yang Guangzhong's hints. After that, Yang Guo told his father that he had been hurt and did not want to get married. This made Yang Guangzhong very angry, and he shouted angrily at his daughter: "Do you know that you are not filial to do this? Have you ever been injured once and lost hope? So what do I do? Who will take care of you if you go on like this? ”
Yang Guo also shouted: "I don't need someone to take care of me." Then he went out of the door. After this quarrel, the relationship between Yang Guo and his father Yang Guangzhong took a sharp turn for the worse, and Yang Guo would never take the initiative to contact Yang Guangzhong again.
Yang Guangzhong, who loved his daughter, thought that his daughter was just gambling with himself, so he entrusted his relatives and friends to introduce his daughter to a few boys with suitable conditions. But unexpectedly, Yang Guo just didn't care about it at first, and was a little wooden about his feelings, and then he directly refused to meet boys and refused all heterosexual interactions.
Yang GuangzhongThis made Yang Guangzhong extremely distressed, and once an old friend accidentally said: "My daughter used to be very rebellious, but fortunately, now she is married and has children, and after having children, she focuses on her family, and misses her children every day at work, so girls are just mothers." ”
Yang Guangzhong simply used the excuse that he likes children, sent a lot of children's ** to his daughter, and persuaded his daughter: "Don't you like children?" Look how cute these kids are. ”
However, it is very likely that it was his father's urging that made Yang Guo's inner pressure greater, and he came up with the idea of wanting to have a child and confessing to his father, so he went to the road of IVF.
Yang GuoLater, when Yang Guo was sober, ** tried to ask Yang Guo about his situation. Yang Guo said that he couldn't bear his father's urging to marry and give birth, so he went to Thailand for IVF surgery, and returned to China after successfully becoming pregnant. But the high cost of surgery almost drained her own savings.
Yang Guo was forced to apply for several companies, but some companies took the initiative to fire her as soon as they heard that she was pregnant. In addition, Yang Guo often vomited in the early stages of pregnancy, often couldn't work well during working hours, and couldn't find a suitable job over time.
Yang Guo's ID card.
Yang Guo, who has no income, has even more psychological pressure, and a series of events after that pushed her into the abyss. When handling the identity information for the child, Yang Guo found that her IVF was not recognized in China, and her child did not have a real father, which undoubtedly increased the difficulty of handling the child's identity and household registration information.
And the excitement and rushing life made Yang Guo's body abnormal, and the doctor told Yang Guo that her various indicators were abnormal, and there were signs of slippery tires, and if she continued to toss like this, the child would not be able to keep it. On the one hand, she regretted her impulsiveness, but on the other hand, she didn't want her high surgery fees to go down the drain.
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After some struggle, Yang Guo was admitted to an expensive local private hospital. Because Yang Guo was in a hurry when he resigned, all kinds of social relations were not transferred well, and the medical insurance was also paid by the school where he worked. However, Yang Guo, who was pregnant with Liujia, didn't want to go back to face his former colleagues, so the high hospitalization fee could not be reimbursed, and Yang Guo could only bear it alone.
After this, Yang Guo's only remaining savings were also used up, and she saw countless people's warmth and coldness in the hospital all day long, her heart gradually distorted, thinking of her father's various persecutions on her, anger and unwillingness surged into her heart. Under cranky thoughts and tremendous pressure, Yang Guo eventually went insane and lived on the streets.
Yang GuangzhongIn July 2013, Yang Guo successfully gave birth to a baby boy. Yang Guangzhong looked at his little grandson who was waiting to be fed, both happy and worried. Fortunately, after giving birth to the child, Yang Guo's mental condition improved, and he was able to help his father take care of the child when he was sober. But the good times didn't last long, one day Yang Guangzhong was cooking at home, and in the blink of an eye, the little grandson and daughter in the bedroom disappeared.
He hurriedly put down the work in his hand and chased out, and found that his daughter was walking out with her little grandson in her arms, and she was in a trance, and her mouth kept babbling nonsense. Yang Guangzhong was frightened into a cold sweat when he saw this scene, he had just found his beloved daughter, and he couldn't lose her again. After that, Yang Guo's condition deteriorated, and the frequency of the attack became higher and higher, and in desperation, Yang Guangzhong had to send his daughter back to the psychiatric hospital again.
Yang Guo in the hospital.
Yang Guangzhong, who took care of his grandson alone, also encountered unprecedented difficulties, he was old and in poor health, but his grandson was too young and often didn't sleep in the middle of the night to drink milk. And his meager pension is simply not able to support his grandson and daughter, and Yang Guo's daily medication and medical treatment in a mental hospital are a high expense. Yang Guangzhong, who was bent over by life, was visibly haggard, and after his neighbors found out about him, they took the initiative to contact the community to help him, taking turns to take care of the baby at his home.
Many well-wishers saw the report on the local TV station, came to visit Yang Guangzhong's home, and brought a lot of baby products. The local ** even got in touch with Yang Guo's hospital and reduced some of Yang Guo's medical expenses. Everyone contributed money and contributed efforts, and Yang Guangzhong relaxed a lot for a while.
At the same time, Yang Guangzhong, who was helped by well-wishers, also cheered up and took care of his grandson more attentively, often taking his grandson to visit his daughter and talk to Yang Guo. Full of gratitude, he looks forward to the growth of his grandson and the recovery of his daughter.
In the process of education, Yang Guangzhong only saw his daughter's high education and successful and stable job, but ignored his daughter's mental health education, laying the groundwork for his daughter's resignation and a series of crazy moves in the future.
At the same time, because of the lack of communication between father and daughter, the psychological pressure on Yang Guo and Yang Guangzhong continued to increase, and finally Yang Guo, who was tortured, made such a crazy move. This reminds us of the importance of communication and a well-rounded education in a child's development.