Neither want to get married nor separate

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-18

I have seen such a news before, the woman and the man have been talking for many years, the woman thinks that the man is good at everything, especially for her, and she is meticulous, but she found a new love through a blind date, and the conditions of the new love are better than her boyfriend, so she thought about breaking up with her boyfriend and choosing a new love, but she felt that her boyfriend was not bad and didn't want to cheapen others, so she coaxed her boyfriend to get sterilized.

I'm afraid of following him to endure hardships, and I'm afraid that he will suddenly drive a Land Rover.

After a few years of love, reluctant to break up, and unwilling to get married, this is the status quo of many girls in long-distance love. On the one hand, I don't want to accompany my boyfriend to endure hardships, and on the other hand, I am constantly going on blind dates to find a better partner.

With you, I think I'm going to suffer, but apart, there's no better choice. It satisfies the spiritual, but not the financial.

Commonly known as chicken ribs, it is a pity to abandon the tasteless food.

He's fine, but he doesn't have any money.

During the Chinese New Year, many people are on a blind date, according to statistics, more than half of this blind date group has a partner, has been in love for many years, and wants to screen out the better conditions through the blind date.

Marriage is not better than love, two people in love can be together when they look at each other, marriage is the run-in of two families, economy, and naturally put it first.

A sober love brain is the most painful. Murakami Muraki once said that you are not my choice after weighing the pros and cons, but the firmness that I know I can't do after I am heartbroken, which is my greatest sincerity to this relationship.

Girls generally need a third person to solve this situation, that is, to find a better one in the case of riding a donkey to find a horse.

This kind of better refers to people who are more friendly than men, both economically and spiritually.

Otherwise, you will always hang your boyfriend, be in love for many years, and not get married.

I am reluctant to leave, and I can't see the future when I get married.

It is better to leave regrets for love than hidden dangers for marriage. That's the one woman close to me said the most.

She and her boyfriend are each other's first love, and they have been in love for seven years, from eighteen to twenty-five, seeing that they are about to get married, her boyfriend has urged her to get married many times, but she has fallen into hesitation.

The main reason is that her boyfriend's economic conditions are not good, he is a single-parent family, three years older than her, and he is already thirty years old.

Her parents were adamantly against it, even forcing them to die. She also knows the good intentions of her parents, although her boyfriend has been good to her over the years, and even handed over all her salary, but she also knows that she is young and beautiful, and she can find someone with better conditions, and she also knows that if she marries her boyfriend, she will have to suffer financially.

But after so many years of relationship, she is reluctant to share, every time she cries to us that she must break up if she wants to cut through the mess quickly, but every time she still can't make up her mind.

In this way, year after year, seven years, in different places, in these seven years, she has also been in contact with different men. Every year during the Chinese New Year, the most feared thing is that my boyfriend mentions marriage, and I never dare to take my boyfriend home, and even my parents see my boyfriend for the first time, they choose a small restaurant in the city.

Finally found a good condition, the family is in business, and the most important thing is to be very good to her, pick her up from work every day, drive an Audi car, and earn enough face for her in front of her colleagues.

She mentioned breaking up, her boyfriend has been trying to get her back, her boyfriend doesn't know how many men she has been in contact with in the past few years, because she gave ** to herself, and her boyfriend has always regarded her as a holy little fairy.

And she was also afraid that her boyfriend would suddenly get rich, so she kept throwing the pot of breakup to her parents.

My parents said they would marry me to you when you had a house and a car. ”

Until her boyfriend also found a new girlfriend, she also knew that she had already found her boyfriend, and she was not waiting for him as she said.

Wait for him to get up, wait for him to get rich, wait for him to have a house and a car.

This girl made such a choice not overnight, she clearly knows that marriage and feelings are different. Slowly withdraw from this relationship and choose a person who is more suitable for marriage.

wants to break the game, unless this boy suddenly gets rich.

Of course, not only girls, but also some men will make a choice to weigh the pros and cons when facing the same problem. However, unlike girls, boys' consideration of marriage, compared with love, in addition to economy and **, the most important thing is childbirth.

That is to say, the succession of generations.

If a guy just wants to fall in love and doesn't want to get married, there is only one reason, free p-friends. So there is only one way to break the game, and that is to get a girl pregnant.

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