Introduction:
Giving red envelopes during the Chinese New Year is a traditional custom. However, a recent red envelope incident has sparked controversy in the family group. A Xiao Zheng unceremoniously publicly demanded a refund because his mother gave more money to a relative's child than the amount of the other party's gift in return. In this regard, netizens have expressed their opinions, whether they agree or not, they are divided into two factions, which side are you on?
The differences behind the New Year's red envelope customs
In China, it is an important custom for relatives to exchange red envelopes during the Chinese New Year. However, due to the differences in customs and styles in different regions and family situations, people have choices about the way and amount of red envelopes. Therefore, it is inevitable that there will be occasional unequal amounts of red envelopes. And in this New Year, Xiao Zheng had an unpleasant red envelope incident.
The embarrassment behind the red envelope
Xiao Zheng's mother prepared 1,000 yuan of New Year's money for her relatives' children during the Chinese New Year. However, when Xiao Zheng received the red envelope from the other party in return, it was only 200 yuan. This made Xiao Zheng feel very embarrassed and inappropriate. Although some people may explain that the other party may not have seen the amount in the red envelope, in fact, Xiao Zheng's mother gives 1,000 yuan to her relative's child every year, and the amount of the other party's return gift has always been 200 yuan, which makes Xiao Zheng feel psychologically unbalanced.
Retirement of New Year's money has caused controversy
Faced with the same experience almost every year, Xiao Zheng found the other party on WeChat and said that he hoped that the other party would return 1,000 yuan to his mother, and he would return 200 yuan to his relatives' children. However, the other party refused to reply to Xiao Zheng's message. Xiao Zheng felt that the other party deliberately pretended not to see the news, and publicly asked for a refund of the New Year's money in the family group. After a period of waiting, the sister-in-law still did not reply, and Xiao Zheng had to discuss the matter openly in the family group. However, things developed unexpectedly, and Xiao Zheng was kicked out of the family group by his sister-in-law.
Netizens have different opinions on the incident
Regarding Xiao Zheng's behavior, netizens expressed their opinions. Some netizens agreed with Xiao Zheng's approach, thinking that they had experienced a similar situation, and it was difficult to accept that they only received a small amount of red envelopes for relatives every year. However, there are also some people who hold a different view, believing that Xiao Zheng pays too much attention to the amount of red envelopes and ignores the true meaning of New Year's money. Despite this, most netizens chose to remain silent because they were unwilling to conflict with their relatives over face issues, or they did not have the courage to take the initiative to "toughen up" like Xiao Zheng.
Both lost face
Some netizens believe that whether it is Xiao Zheng or the other party, the behavior of the two is inappropriate. Xiao Zheng attaches too much importance to the amount of red envelopes, giving too much meaning to the New Year's money. Although the other party did not respond positively to the request, and even kicked out Xiao Zheng, it also exposed the neglect of family affection and the mentality of taking advantage. In this case, there was no real communication and understanding.
This red envelope incident has sparked widespread controversy, revealing people's contradictions and embarrassments in the tradition of red envelopes for the Chinese New Year. There may be misunderstandings and inaccuracies in all aspects. Perhaps we need to pay more attention to and promote the emotions and blessings behind the red envelopes, not just the exchange of money. List of high-quality authors
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