Yao Yao, the daughter of her cousin's family, scored 585 points in the college entrance examination and was admitted to a university in the province.
Ji Wanqiu asked her cousin, when will she hold a college entrance banquet? My cousin said she was in no mood to do it.
How can this work!
Ji Wanqiu yelled at her cousin: "People who score more than 200 points in the exam have to have a college promotion banquet, our Yaoyao has done so well in the exam, why don't you do it?" ”
Her husband Lin Zhiping secretly tugged at her sleeve and persuaded her with his mouth: "Don't worry, maybe they have difficulties......”
Only then did Ji Wanqiu remember that her cousin-in-law had just undergone a major operation, and it was indeed not the right time to mention it.
I just thought about taking time to go to my cousin's house, and I still did well in the exam, although I didn't put up a college banquet, but the red envelope was indispensable, and I received a text message from my cousin, and the date of the college entrance banquet was set:
Originally, your brother-in-law and I didn't want you to spend any more money, but my mother-in-law said that being admitted to university is the most crucial step for children to enter society, and we can't help but take it seriously.
Besides, there are several relatives and friends who have sent red envelopes without setting up a table, and we can't be too rude, so let's just think about it.
Don't forget to come over for a drink with your brother-in-law. As for the red envelope, don't take it, you've helped us enough......”
Ji Wanqiu was relieved.
She discussed with her husband that she would put 10,000 yuan in red envelopes, and her cousin's family was in trouble to help her.
Who knew that this was actually heard by the mother-in-law: "Late autumn, is 10,000 a bit much?"
If you listen to me, just put 600, you are cousins, this is no more and no less, suitable ......”
Ji Wanqiu was a little annoyed: "Mom, you know that we have a close relationship with my cousin, so you can't take out the 600 yuan, right?" ”
Late autumn, I know that you have a good relationship with your cousin, but have you thought about it, this wallet in the red envelope is equivalent to gift money is exchange, and human relations are to be repaid.
Yaoyao goes to school, you give him 6,000, and in two years, our child will also take the exam, how much do you let him go back? ”
After listening to her mother-in-law's words, Ji Wanqiu felt that it made sense, this is a relative.
Especially if one of the parties is polite, as for the one who returns the gift, it becomes a burden.
I still haven't thought it through.
Mom, I don't know what to do anymore, thank you for ......”
The mother-in-law looked at Ji Wanqiu's sudden realization and smiled: "You two have a good relationship, I know, as the saying goes, it's good, care is messy, I just hope you don't do bad things with good intentions......."”
Ji Wanqiu and her cousin Lin Wanyun grew up together.
Lin Wanyun is the second child of her aunt's family, and her aunt's mother-in-law is patriarchal.
Grandma was reluctant, so she went to see her daughter and took the child back.
At that time, Ji Wanqiu's mother was already more than 7 months pregnant, and her grandmother said that if her mother gave birth to a boy, she would leave Wanyun in her parents' account and raise her as twins.
If it were a girl, Wanyun wouldn't settle down first, and wait for her aunt to have another one.
's mother gave birth to a girl, this is Ji Wanqiu.
According to the parents' meaning, they didn't listen to their grandmother, and put the two children's household registration together and raised them as twins.
But my aunt was not happy, she said that the child she gave birth to was just given to others to raise the Tao, and she was reluctant to give it to her own brother.
Give it to others to raise, it is possible that you will never see it again in this life, and you will see it at your own brother's house, three days and two ends, I am afraid that I can't help but be reluctant:
Mom, I'm pregnant again now, you can raise her for a few more days, I gave birth to a son, and I persuaded my mother-in-law to take her back and settle down.
It's a big deal to pay some money ......”
Grandma nodded her head and agreed, because there were many such situations around her.
The second girl will be sent to someone else's house, raised for a period of time, and then picked up after the next one, pay the full money, and the household registration will be lost.
Although it may not be possible, it can also have one more child.
My aunt gave birth to three children, and finally had both children and daughters, and she also left Wanyun with a household registration.
But it happened that my aunt's mother-in-law had an accident and fell down the mountain while going out to work and broke her leg.
She had to serve both the younger and the old, and her aunt was busy with the rounds, so she asked her mother to take her for a while
Mom, Yunyun is used to staying with you, and she gets along well with Xiaoqiu, so I won't go back.
There is only one old and one small one in the family, and it will cost me half my life......”
If you don't pick it up, don't pick it up, Wanyun and Wanqiu, who are more than two years old, have a very good relationship, and the sisters never grab things or fight.
If you really send Wanyun away, I'm afraid that Late Autumn will cry and be unwilling.
In this way, until she was in elementary school, Wanyun still lived at her grandmother's house.
My aunt came to pick me up a few times, but I came back within two days of staying back.
When I asked her, she said that her home was here and she was not going anywhere.
Later, she secretly told Wanqiu that her sister and brother joined forces to bully her when she returned home:
When my mother was at home, they were very kind to me, and they handed me delicious food and fun.
But as soon as my mother was not at home, the two of them would secretly beat me, biting me with my teeth and pinching with my hands, saying that I was not a child of their family, and telling me to get out of the ...... quickly”
She also rolled up her sleeves to let Wanqiu see the pinching marks on her arms, and made Wanqiu cry in distress.
waited until her aunt came to pick up Wanyun again, and she didn't need anyone else to drive her out in late autumn.
In this way, the two sisters grew up together, and even Wanyun got married and kept leaving her grandmother's house.
Late Autumn regarded Wanyun as her own sister, Wanyun regarded her aunt as her own mother, and the two sisters had a good relationship, even Late Autumn's younger brother was jealous, saying that he was redundant in that family.
The sisters' in-laws are from rural areas.
After Wanyun got married, she gave birth to a daughter and a son, but because her in-laws were not in good health, the two could only work in the village, and their lives were poorer.
In late autumn, her husband was out for a few years, and then seized an opportunity, opened a produce store in the city, bought a house, and the family moved into the city.
Late autumn also wanted to help Wanyun's family, and after Wanyun's parents-in-law died, she discussed with her husband to give them a shop on another street and let them come to the city.
But Wanyun refused.
She said that she knew that Late Autumn was for their good: "Xiaoqiu, I appreciate your kindness, but ah, I know that neither I nor your brother-in-law are business materials."
I was worried about going out, he was worried about talking, your store was given to us, I'm afraid it was smashed into our hands, it's better to farm at home honestly......”
In late autumn, I listened to what my sister said made sense, interlaced like a mountain, and had the intention of helping them, so it was better to support them and let them do things they were familiar with.
So he took out part of the money and rented dozens of acres of mountain land for them in the village and planted dried and fresh fruits.
The quality must be guaranteed, the sales are contracted by themselves, and even the payment can be paid in advance.
Because fertilizers and pesticides all need money.
She knew that her sister had no money in her hands, her sister's parents-in-law had died of illness, and she had two children going to school, so the burden was too great.
Wanyun and his family knew that their sister was just helping them in disguise, and they were grateful, the fruit management was very good, and the taste and quality were also controlled, so their fruits were not worried.
There were even a few people who went with the late autumn to pry the goods, but they couldn't pry it.
The life of Wanyun's family has also improved.
How do you know that this has just passed the New Year, and something happened to Wanyun's family again.
When my brother-in-law drove a handcart to work in the orchard, he overturned the car due to an operation error, injured both legs and spine, and smashed all his savings in the past few years.
Yao Yao, the eldest daughter in her third year of high school, wanted to drop out of school, saying that she wanted to go out to earn money for her father's treatment and for her younger brother to go to school.
Say that your parents are working hard to earn money, just to let you and your younger brother go to school well, and when you grow up, you can get ahead and no longer suffer from the hardships they suffered.
You go out to work now, get 3000 2000 a month, and you're so tired, is this what you're pursuing? Is this your purpose in life?
If you are admitted to a good university and seize the opportunity, how many times will your monthly salary be higher than that of a part-time job?
Yaoyao, if you drop out of school based on your grades, no matter how well you mix in the future, your parents will not be at ease in this life.
Listen to my aunt, study hard and take the exam, you don't have to worry about family affairs, and we ......”
Yao Yao also competed and got a good score in the exam.
Ji Wanqiu's heart relaxed.
As soon as the college entrance examination ended, she was ready to give Yaoyao a big red envelope, which could also reduce the burden on her cousin.
Originally, he was going to buy a mobile phone and computer for his child at the beginning, but the younger brother said that let her cool off, and this had to be given to him as an uncle.
She smiled and let Xian go.
Then give money, how affordable the money is.
But after listening to her mother-in-law's words, she realized that she had thought too little.
She discussed with her husband that the red envelope was 600 yuan, and the 10,000 yuan was directly given to the child: "Just say that I am the aunt who rewarded her, and when she earns money in the future, she has to treat me as filial as a mother."
Anyway, our family only has a son, and we lack a daughter......”
You can't make an excuse for this reason if you want people to oppose it. Okay, it's all up to you, so be it.