Gu Xiaofei is 30 years old this year, she is young and energetic, and her life has always been very happy. She lives with her husband in a small warm family, they have a lovely daughter, and they live happily every day.
The relationship between Gu Xiaofei and her mother-in-law is average, when Gu Xiaofei was confined, her mother-in-law excused herself and said that her waist was not good and she couldn't take care of Gu Xiaofei's confinement. Later, Gu Xiaofei wanted to go back to work after maternity leave, she hoped that her mother-in-law could come to help take care of the children for a few years, but her mother-in-law refused again under the pretext of poor health.
Mother-in-law to help take care of the child is affection, not an obligation, and the mother-in-law is unwilling to ask Gu Xiaofei for nothing. It's just that Gu Xiaofei felt that her mother-in-law was a little ruthless, and chose to sit idly by when she needed help so much. Since then, Gu Xiaofei has not been so affectionate to her mother-in-law, everything is indifferent.
Today, Gu Xiaofei's daughter is in the first grade. One day, her husband suddenly received a ** from her mother-in-law, who complained that she was very lonely in her hometown, and she had no care in life, and she was very miserable. The mother-in-law pretended to say so much, just to say that her son agreed to her to support the elderly.
Gu Xiaofei's husband was very hesitant, he knew that if he agreed to his mother-in-law's request, it would definitely cause Gu Xiaofei's dissatisfaction. However, he could not refuse his mother-in-law's request, because it was the mother who gave birth to him and raised him, and it was his son's obligation to provide for her in his old age, so he decided to let her come and live.
When Gu Xiaofei learned the news, she felt very angry. Her husband allowed her mother-in-law to support her without her consent, completely ignoring her feelings. When she was confined, her mother-in-law refused to take care of her, so why can she now come to support her in a grand manner?
Ms. Gu's husband tried to persuade her to accept the arrangement. He explained to her that his mother-in-law was indeed very lonely, that she had no other relatives to accompany her, and that he felt that as a son, he should take care of her feelings. Gu Xiaofei understands her husband's difficulties, but she still feels that she can't accept that she will have to live with her mother-in-law in the future.
Gu Xiaofei had a fierce quarrel with her husband, but in the end, it did not change the fact that her mother-in-law was going to come to support the elderly. Gu Xiaofei was very aggrieved, when her mother-in-law arrived, she tried her best to hide her dissatisfaction, not wanting her mother-in-law to cause conflicts as soon as she came, but her mother-in-law's actions made her unbearable and broke out in anger.
Gu Xiaofei's family lives in a small two-bedroom house, she and her husband live in the master bedroom, and the other bedroom belongs to their daughter. After the mother-in-law came, she said that she wanted to live in her daughter's room and refused to sleep on the sofa bed in the living room. Gu Xiaofei's anger was aroused again, and she couldn't care about it much, so she directly reasoned with her mother-in-law on the spot.
Gu Xiaofei said angrily: "This is my daughter's room, she has lived in it for a few years, you grandmother don't know how to feel sorry for her, she will be very aggrieved to let her move out." ”
The mother-in-law said loudly: "I am still your mother-in-law, do you talk to the elders like this?" I'm here to care for the elderly, so you let me live in the living room and sleep on the sofa? It's good that I didn't let you out the master bedroom. ”
Gu Xiaofei was even more angry: "Since you know that the house is small enough to live, why do you have to come to support the elderly, isn't this adding to the chaos?" ”
The mother-in-law trembled with anger: "It's only right for me to come to my son's house to support the elderly, it's not your turn to give me advice here, I just want to live in my granddaughter's room, you can move her things out quickly." ”
Gu Xiaofei was already angry: "Okay, you can live, the whole family will be given to you!" I moved out with my kids. ”
Her husband couldn't persuade her in the middle, and watched Gu Xiaofei pack up her things and go back to her parents' house. Gu Xiaofei lived in her mother's house for half a month, during which her husband went several times to pick her and the child back, but Gu Xiaofei closed the door and didn't even pick up, and she was determined to fight him to the end.
The husband thought that Gu Xiaofei was just playing with her temper, and she would be fine when her anger subsided. Now she knows that Gu Xiaofei is serious this time, if he doesn't do what she wants, she will really divorce him.
The husband chooses between the two most important women in his life, he has been entangled for a long time, and he can only be sorry for his mother in order to save his family.
The husband persuaded his mother-in-law to go back to his hometown to support the elderly, but the mother-in-law scolded him for being an unfilial son and forgetting his mother when he had a daughter-in-law. He said to his mother-in-law with red eyes: "Mom, if you keep making trouble, my wife and children are gone, will I live with you in the future?" The mother-in-law was asked, and she finally compromised and let her son send her back to her hometown.
Gu Xiaofei saw her husband's sincerity, so she took the child and went home with him. After these twists and turns, her husband no longer dared to make his own decisions on major matters, and would discuss everything with Gu Xiaofei first. Gu Xiaofei is not an unreasonable person, and she will accompany her husband to visit her mother-in-law on holidays, trying to achieve a balance between the two sides.