In the TV series "South to North", the audience focused on Lili, but few people really understood her inner suffering. Through in-depth analysis, we can truly understand the extent to which she hates her second father.
Lili was born pure and smart, and has enjoyed a carefree life since she was a child, and has been endlessly pampered by her family. However, the turning point of fate is often hidden beneath the calm surface of life.
As the only daughter of the Peng family, Lili's life should have been smooth sailing. Her father doted on her and did his best to pave a golden road for her. But behind this, there is a hidden story.
Lao Ma is another important person in Lili's life. He silently did a lot of seemingly inconsequential for Lili, but in fact it was an emotional return hidden deep in his heart.
The meticulous care and help he gave to Lili was just a gratitude to Mingjie who had saved his life.
However, Lili's reaction was unexpected. She was like a frightened white-eyed wolf, ignoring the old horse's kindness. The reason for all this stems from her deep obsession with father's love.
When Lili was growing up, her father's love was like a solid fortress that she couldn't refuse. Even when her father was in trouble, she still chose to trust blindly.
However, when the truth comes out, she discovers that the person she once trusted turned out to be the culprit who sent her father to prison.
On the day of her wedding, Lili made an unexpected decision, she left the Ma family, left her hometown, and chose to return to Hacheng. However, the reality is harsh.
The house was seized, her grandmother was sick, her husband became unrecognizable, and Lili's life fell to the bottom in an instant. Behind all this, there is her resentment and endless resentment towards her second father.
Although she knew her father's fault, she still chose to turn her anger on her second father. However, when her second father died, she did not go to see him off for the last time, which may be a kind of rebellion in the deepest part of her heart.
Lili, who grew up in good times, is at a loss when faced with the great changes in her life. Her worldview has collapsed, and the former glamour and magnificence have disappeared, leaving only the pursuit of her father's love and the anxiety about the future.
Life is always full of unpredictable twists and turns and challenges. In this long journey of life, Lili may once again find her lost direction and rekindle the hope in her heart.
In 2017, when Peng Ming was imprisoned, he took Lili and his grandson to the tomb of Lao Ma to tell his heart. He thanked Lao Ma for helping their family at the most critical time.
I also lamented that there are two things in this life that I regret the most, one of which is that I didn't give the old horse a ride. Lili listened to her father's story, bowed to the old horse's tombstone, and said sorry.
She didn't expect to leave the Ma family at that time, and it was the last time she saw her second father. Think about it, Lili is really excessive, for more than ten years, she has never come to see her second father, it's really chilling!
Fortunately, Lao Ma didn't care, his kindness to Lili was out of gratitude to Mingjie from beginning to end, and he didn't want to reciprocate. Lili looked at the harmless appearance of humans and animals, and her heart became ruthless, she was really hard-hearted!
This story makes people think deeply about how family, friendship, and gratitude are intertwined in life. Mingjie's gratitude to Lao Ma and Lili's guilt to her second father are all ordinary and touching scenes in the sophistication of human feelings.
Perhaps, in our busy lives, we should also stop and think about the emotions and needs of the people around us.