The family of origin has a profound impact on a child's development, and parents play an important role in every step of a child's development. They not only provide for their children's material needs, but also teach them moral concepts and guide them to deal with various problems in life. These subtle influences leave a deep imprint on children's personalities, behaviors, and thoughts, and accompany them as they grow. In the process of educating children, some people believe that parents should sing white face on one side and red face on the other, so that children can grow up in a safe environment and learn self-discipline. Usually, the mother plays the role of gentleness, while the father plays the role of harsh. Over time, the child will deeply feel the love of the mother and create a perfect mother image in his heart. However, when the child grows up and becomes a mother, she realizes that the once "perfect" mother is not really perfect. It is only when the mother shows some stern aspects that the family achieves true harmony and balance. Therefore, we can say that the influence of parents in the development of their children is profound, and their roles and behaviors shape the future of their children. 
Conclusion: On the stage of family relationships, we should be wary of the obsession of "I must be a good person", avoid pushing the other party into the position of a bad person, and should not involve children in this play. There are no absolute good people in the family, and there are no outright evil people, just because everyone plays a different role. We should be convinced that most parents love their children deeply and do everything for their children.