Children are lazy and bedridden, parents are crazy? Listening to the analysis of the counselor s dau

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-01

Many parents are crazy about their children's difficulty getting out of bed in the morning and their children lying in bed. There are even some mothers who wake up their children in the morning and have violent conflicts with their children, causing their children to be tired of school and suspend school, resulting in parent-child conflicts.

I once talked to my daughter about the difficulty of getting out of bed, and my daughter said, "Is there anything happier in this world than sleeping?" Think about it. ”

I very much agree with her words, is there anything happier in this world than sleeping? No, happier at work or happier in love? Everything seems to be inseparable from rest, and it is our instinct to get rest. There is a saying in China that "it is better to sleep than to ride a horse and sit in a sedan chair", riding a horse and sitting in a sedan chair, touring the mountains and rivers, eating, drinking and having fun are not as good as sleeping.

Therefore, there is no doubt that a good and adequate sleep is indeed a very happy thing.

Our health is inseparable from sleep, and women's beauty is inseparable from sleep, and men's sexual prowess, men's wisdom are inseparable from sleep.

When my daughter communicated with me, she also said: In fact, everyone wants to be lazy and don't want to be diligent, especially children of their age, who are seriously sleep deprived. Everyone is in a state of energy exhaustion, there is no time to rest in school, there is a very short nap at noon, and even some children do not take a nap and have no time to take a nap. Many children wake up at 6 a.m. until they go to bed at 12 p.m., in a state of high tension and learning, exhausted.

The severe lack of sleep and the super exhaustion of learning make it very difficult for many children to get up in the morning, which requires enough wisdom between parents and children to resolve this conflict and contradiction. When it comes to getting out of bed, parents need to have enough coping skills.

Peng Chenghui, a graduate student in psychology, a psychology writer, a scholar, a psychological counselor of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, a national second-level psychological counselor, a national senior psychological counselor, a senior marriage and family counselor, a family education instructor of the Chinese Psychological Society, an American NGH hypnotic ** teacher, a depression self-** instructor, and the founder of a good dream reunion psychological counseling brand.

She has rich experience in psychological help and counseling, and is good at dealing with anxiety and depression, bipolar disorder, adolescent rebellion, Internet addiction, school suspension, lying flat and rotten, resisting parents, and hating parents. 100,000+ course benefit cases, 50,000+ case counseling cases, and a psychological counseling team with 20 years of experience to escort your child's mental health.

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