Women of different ages have different pursuits for love.
When she was young, a woman pursued romance, was simply happy and happy, and could love vigorously regardless of it.
When the mentality gradually matures, middle-aged women who have experienced the baptism of life are often more yearning for a down-to-earth life, surrounded by a sense of security, and the feeling of being sincerely cared for.
The more middle-aged, the more difficult it is for a woman's heart to open! After all, love can't be eaten, if there is a beautiful love, it is the icing on the cake, and if there is no that, it is harmless.
If you want a middle-aged woman to love you so much that she can't extricate herself, you must learn the "routine" and do it in three words: with sincerity.
Middle-aged women, in the face of love, are actually very realistic, in their eyes, love is no longer a sword to hurt them, dispensable, it is better to love yourself.
Because they see love openly, but also look down, if they can be loved, they will naturally be moved, if they can't get it, then they will not self-denial, or continue to live their own lives, learn to love themselves.
It is undeniable that every woman always maintains the expectation and yearning for love in her heart.
Middle-aged women are more eager for real love, not just beautiful love words. You can't impress a woman just by saying it and not doing it.
Sweet words are suitable for little girls, and you want middle-aged women to beat your heart for you, and you can prove it with practical actions.
Before, I heard a story: a white-collar worker named Qiu Chan, she is usually very busy with work, and she also had a relationship, but it ended up for various reasons.
There is no shortage of suitors around her, but no one can really enter her heart.
Later, a man made her take off her guard.
He picks her up and drops her off every day and delivers her supper when she works overtime.
When she was very tired, she spent her time boiling all kinds of nutritious porridge and told her to eat on time. I had a headache and brain fever, and I bought the medicine and put it in your hand, and I also attached a small snack intimately.
Looking at his silent dedication to her, her heart felt warm, and she firmly believed that he was the happiness she was waiting for.
Ai Mingzhi said: Love is not only flowers, smiles, kisses and spring breeze.
It is also a green pine in the bitter cold, a spark in the dark night, and a hand-in-hand support during a long journey.
The partner that middle-aged women expect is a practical action that can give her practical companionship and care, so that love can be seen.
Men say countless love words, it is better to do a good job for a woman with his heart and plant love in her world.
The love that really makes people emotional is exchanged for sincerity.
Xiaoyan has been married to Xiaojun for more than 20 years, and she rarely has happy times. Parenting, daily chores that are too busy to finish, and little personal time.
After her husband died, she decided to go to the provinces with her sister to relax and really live for herself.
There, she met a teacher who was also a very learned man.
He taught Xiaoyan to learn poetry and encouraged Xiaoyan to go out for a walk. He gave Xiaoyan more affirmation and encouragement, treating her as an independent person, rather than a subordinate of anyone.
Soon after, Xiaoyan decided to marry him, and the two discussed a honeymoon trip, like a pair of loving couples who have been together for many years.
Love has temperature, as long as the heart is used, a woman will definitely be able to perceive it.
Knowing a woman's mind with her heart, entering her world, and giving her the understanding and understanding she wants, can most impress middle-aged women.
Middle-aged women don't have so much desire for love, but they won't lose hope, they have already experienced love, know that no love is perfect, so they won't look forward to it too much, but when they encounter the right opportunity, they will dare to love and hate, they can afford it, they can put it down, maybe it is the maturity and charm of middle-aged women.
A man who knows how to work hard can bring color and warmth to a woman's world, so that her long-sealed heart will be moved again.
Miss Li in "The Myth of Love", divorced and living with children, accidentally had a one-night story with Teacher Bai, woke up the next day, and quietly slipped away with her shoes.
Because for the middle-aged Miss Li, this is not a big deal, and she will not be trapped by this, because she has experienced a failed marriage, so when she reaches middle age, she will not be too enthusiastic, let alone give easily.
She restrained herself not to fall in love with someone because of a momentary touch, and she also told herself to alienate a man who had only met once.
But after the relationship, even if Miss Li didn't care about it, Teacher Bai was interested.
Teacher Bai found Miss Li's home, took the book over, saw that the light bulb was broken, and helped her fix it by the way, and later saw that Miss Li's shoes were broken, and found someone to help her fix it.
In fact, in the hearts of middle-aged women, love is not important, what matters is the sincerity of men, and only sincerity can be trusted.
Miss Li is in the love of middle-aged people, in fact, there are advances and retreats, she will not easily trust a person again, but she does not want to lose the opportunity, but with the mentality of seeing everywhere, clear and alienated, calm and proud.
When a woman reaches a certain age, she is burdened with too many things that have nothing to do with love, such as houses, children, education, life, etc., and love is not daring to think about it, because there are too many things to worry about.
If you can meet someone who really cherishes you, and the conditions are not bad, maybe you can still consider it.
Love with heart is the most secure for women, and men bring enough security to women with their hearts, so that women dare to deliver all their sincerity.
How to make a woman feel safe?
Men can do this:
First, keep your loyalty to your relationship with your heart and don't hide anything from a woman, which can bring a woman a feeling of trustworthiness and reliability.
Second, in life, pay more attention to women's emotions and needs. When she was down, being by her side, listening to her confusion and depression made her feel that she was no longer alone.
Third, when getting along, you must know how to give women respect and understanding with your heart. This is important.
When women have something on their minds, they must learn to listen and maintain effective communication with each other. Instead of ignoring it, they complained about not understanding themselves after a long time.
Fourth, when encountering things, men must know how to take responsibility, do not shirk, or sit idly by, and have the ability to solve things, so that women can rely on them with confidence.
Men know how to work hard and know how to pay, so that women can be surrounded by a sense of security, so that women are not afraid of the wind and rain and tests in the future.
To impress middle-aged women, men must learn to use sincerity.
Carefully understand the needs and expectations of a woman's heart, give the other person space and freedom, and let her take off the armor in her heart.
Only by using sincerity to bring a woman a sense of security and down-to-earth happiness will she unconsciously fall into the encirclement of love.