Time flies, time flies.
When we grow from immature children to stable **, and then enter the gray-haired old age, the relatives and friends around us are constantly changing.
Some people say that when people get old, their family affection is stronger; Some people say that when people get older, friendship is weaker.
However, in my opinion, in order to maintain the friendship between brothers and sisters in old age, the following three conditions are most likely required.
1. Understand each other and tolerate each other's shortcomings.
When we are young, we are always looking forward to the outside world, longing to be away from home and pursue our dreams.
And when we really travel far away from home and go through countless ups and downs, we will find that home is the warmest harbor, and brothers and sisters are the most solid support.
But after a long period of separation and different living environments, each of us has our own way of life and values.
When we get old, we may all have our own stubbornness and prejudices, but if we want the friendship between brothers and sisters to continue, we must first learn to understand each other and tolerate each other's shortcomings.
Everyone has their own difficulties and hardships, and everyone has their own choices and decisions.
We can't get upset or even break off the relationship just because some of the other person's practices don't meet our expectations.
On the contrary, we should think more from the other person's point of view, to understand the other party's difficulties and choices.
Only in this way can we truly be free of barriers and sincere.
2. Keep in touch and share the moments of life.
The fast-paced life of modern society makes each of us like a lonely planet, rotating in the vast sea of people.
We are so busy with work, socializing, and taking care of our families that we often neglect to connect with our siblings.
After a long time, the feelings will naturally fade.
As we get older, we should cherish our friendship with our brothers and sisters.
No matter where we are, we should stay connected and share the moments of our lives.
We can say a ** greeting from time to time, or send a WeChat chat.
We can share our joys and sorrows, and we can also listen to each other's hearts.
This will not only enhance our relationship with each other, but also make our lives more fulfilling and interesting.
Of course, staying in touch isn't just through ** or WeChat.
We can also use holidays or free time to organize some family gatherings or trips.
This gives everyone more time and opportunities to spend time together and create great memories together.
3. Share responsibility and support each other to move forward.
In life, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of difficulties and challenges.
When we face these difficulties and challenges, what we need most is the support and help of our loved ones.
As brothers and sisters, we should share responsibilities and support each other to move forward.
As people get older, their physical and mental needs increase.
We may need more care and attention.
At this time, mutual assistance between siblings is particularly important.
We can take turns caring for our elderly parents, and we can also help each other with some of life's problems.
Only when we truly take responsibility together and support each other to move forward will our friendship be deeper and stronger.
In addition to the above three additional conditions, I think it is also very important to cherish the present moment and grasp every time we get together.
Because life is short, we don't know which will come first, tomorrow or the unexpected.
Therefore, we should cherish every opportunity to get together with our brothers and sisters, and make every reunion the best memory of our lives.
When people are old, if the friendship between brothers and sisters is to be maintained for a long time, we need to understand each other and tolerate each other's shortcomings; Stay connected and share the moments of life; Take responsibility together and support each other to move forward.
Only in this way can we leave a strong mark in the long river of years, so that our friendship will always shine!