There is a sentence in "Blade": Money can bring people the most precious thing in the world - don't ask for people.
Indeed, money means more choices for most people, not having to please anyone, let alone attaching themselves to anyone.
Whether a woman is rich or not cannot be simply looked at her appearance, but these three signs on her body can be clearly seen, and they can't be hidden.
1. In the relationship, get used to taking.
I've seen a story on the Internet:
The girl's family background is not good, and she often talks about the three words "I have no money", she will try all kinds of ways to get benefits from men, she is mercenary, goose plucking, and only money in her eyes.
She said that she has been with her boyfriend for three years, and her boyfriend is in business, and seeing that she can speak well, let her be in charge of a store independently, and she will play a small trick to put part of her income into her pocket and settle in her pocket.
However, at a friend's party, I heard my girlfriend say to others: "His boyfriend is so good, how can he fall in love with her, but he just treats her as a free store manager." ”
Although her best friend's words were ugly, they made her sober.
She sorted out her clues, cut off her relationship with her boyfriend, took out all her savings, plus her years of experience in the business field, and opened a tonic medicine store. She made full use of the self-leading platform, broke through the traditional business model, provided ready-to-eat products, brought more choices to customers, and the store quickly opened the market, which was impressive.
Women who habitually demand, no matter how rich they are, do not get the respect of others, because they are exchanging material things in the name of love.
However, because of the habit of taking, there will be no security, and there will often be internal friction in anxiety and entanglement.
Women have the ability to make themselves financially independent, so that they can firmly hold the initiative in their own hands.
Women rely on themselves to show off their wealth at the highest level.
Second, in life, I like to complain.
Friend shares her neighbor's experience:
The eldest sister of the neighbor, whose husband was injured in the line of duty and had a lame leg, had to do odd jobs, and had a child in elementary school at home. In order to live, the eldest sister will sell breakfast at the gate of the community every morning.
The neighbors knew that it was not easy for her, and would always help her with her business, but she always liked to complain, and when she saw those families who came to have breakfast together, she said with something in her words: I envy you, what a happy family, look at my miserable life.
If she met a neighbor who reported a food problem, she did not humbly accept the change, but angrily said: Everything outside is the same, so much attention is paid to.
Gradually, the neighbors were reluctant to help, and the business was difficult, and her complaints became louder.
Women who lack money are full of "resentment", and they will only complain when they encounter difficulties.
And women with rich hearts will not be confused because of temporary difficulties, they will work hard to find a way out and live a wonderful life in the quagmire of life.
3. Lack of pattern in interacting with people.
When I first started renting, I met a roommate :
She often "Shun" back some daily necessities such as paper towels, disposable cups, pens, notebooks and other daily necessities from the company, and even use private items that others put in the public area without asking for self-pickup. When it comes to apportioning the water and electricity bills every month, she counts by the pound, accurate to the decimal point, and she looks very "cheap" when she cares about the benefits.
In fact, she has a stable job and a high income, but the pattern is too small, which causes dissatisfaction among her roommates, and everyone can't help but stay away from her.
Women with a small pattern like to take advantage of others and take advantage of each other, which often makes people stay away, and their interpersonal relationships will get worse and worse.
A woman with a big picture will keep her bottom line and principles, will not be competitive, and will constantly improve herself through hard work.
Guo Jingjing is a good example, when Huo Qigang was pursuing Guo Jingjing, people from the outside world said that Guo Jingjing had a good life and climbed to the rich, but Guo Jingjing responded neither humbly nor arrogantly: He is a rich man, I am a world champion, there are many rich people in the world, but there are not many world champions.
Guo Jingjing was not carried away by love, even if she retired, she was not in a hurry to marry into a wealthy family, but went overseas to further her studies to improve herself and win the recognition and respect of the Huo family.
In the final analysis, "I am worthy" is the biggest trump card, and "climbing" is only the lowest means.
Feelings are like playing chess, you need opponents, and you have to be evenly matched to have the fun of the game.
Women with a big pattern will not give up the overall situation because of the immediate interests, and they know that only by their own growth can they seize the opportunity to turn the tables against the wind.
Instead of being a climbing flower, it is better to be a kapok tree rooted in the soil, and wait until the spring flowers bloom and the butterflies will naturally smell the fragrance.
In life, we are indeed inseparable from "money" everywhere, but money is not the standard to measure everything, the important thing is the abundance and satisfaction of the heart.
The effects of material poverty are temporary, but the effects of inner poverty are profound.
A woman with a poor heart, accustomed to taking, complaining, and having a small pattern, their behavior is disgusting and rejected, and women must not live like this.
May women develop the habit of being "rich" and live confidently and openly.
Everyone wants to be rich and live a decent and confident life in this world