Have you watched the high-profile Jia Ling's new work "Hot and Hot"? This work is not only an exciting inspirational drama, but also a vivid lesson in self-care and courage. With its unique charm, it makes us understand that there is only one life, and cherishing and loving oneself is the true meaning of life. Just like a tall tree, we must bravely face the wind and rain and bloom our own light.
1.How I treat other people is my subject; What other people do to me is someone else's question, and I can't decide. - Ichiro Kishimi, "The Courage to Be Hated" 2024 Book of Answers
2.Not being able to change is not wanting to change.
Change means abandoning and denying the "past self", and it is easier to maintain the status quo than the pain of Phoenix Nirvana. They use the misfortunes of the past to explain the stagnation of the present. - The Courage to Be Hated
3.It doesn't hurt to live the "here and now" seriously, which in itself is dancing. Don't make your life too deep. - The Courage to Be Hated
4.Why do you hate yourself? Why don't you just focus on your shortcomings and refuse to like yourself? That's because you're too afraid of being hated by others and afraid of getting hurt in your relationships. - Ichiro Kishimi, Shiken Koga, "The Courage to Be Hated".
5.The number of friends or acquaintances has no value. This is a topic related to the theme of love, and what we should consider is the distance and depth of the relationship. - Ichiro Kishimi, Shiken Koga, "The Courage to Be Hated".
6.Others don't live to meet your expectations. "Even their own children don't live to meet their parents' expectations. - Ichiro Kishimi, Shiken Koga, "The Courage to Be Hated".
7.There is no need to be recognized by others, and don't seek recognition. - The Courage to Be Hated
8.Life is not given by others, but is chosen by oneself, and it is oneself who chooses how to live oneself. - The Courage to Be Hated
9.We do not interfere with other people's issues, nor do we allow others to interfere with our own issues. This is the epoch-making point of view given by Adlerian psychology that has the potential to completely change the troubles of interpersonal relationships -- Ichiro Kishimi and Shiken Koga, "The Courage to Be Hated".