There was such a topic on Zhihu before: Why is my mother never happy, and always easily takes away the happiness of the whole family?
This topic has sparked a lot of discussion among netizens.
You know, most mothers don't mean to take away the happiness of themselves and their families, they just want to do it through some behaviors to gain a sense of inner satisfaction and control.
Many times, mothers' anxiety is dissatisfied with the status quo of life, their efforts are not recognized, or they want to trigger their children's guilt through self-sacrifice.
Whatever the reason, anxious mothers pass on negative energy to their children. Children who live with their mothers have a natural sensitivity to their mother's emotions and will absorb their mother's emotions and internalize them into their own emotions.
The emotional state of the parents determines the color of the child's world. The world of adults is full of exhaustion, stress, and anxiety, so how can we expect the world of children to be easy and happy? Therefore, only by being a positive mother and passing on positive energy to her children can children form positive thinking and have the courage and motivation to mediate with life.