People are a mass of desire, not satisfied with the pain, satisfied after the boring, now there is a popular saying on the Internet, people are not full of food, there is only one trouble, after eating, there are countless troubles, meet a favorite of the opposite sex, desperate to pursue, thinking that as long as the other party can be with themselves. I will be happy in this life. But when the two really lived together for a long time, the sweetness and happiness at the beginning gradually faded into dullness, and they found that this kind of life was not what they expected, and the two even parted ways in the end.
Feelings are like this, work and career is the same, I finally found a job that I feel very satisfied with, and I am ready to devote myself to a big job, but I found that this job is not so easy, the work results are not so satisfactory, colleagues are not so easy to get along with, and the future is not as bright as I imagined.
Sometimes we also think that the world is impermanent, life is often loved, and sometimes we have to endure in the face of life's difficulties. Is it worth it to be tired all day long, and in the end, the bamboo basket may be empty, and you will always be hammered again and again by fate?
Recently, I read "The World Is Worth It" by 90-year-old psychiatrist Tsuneko Nakamura, a wise old man who has worked for 70 years and still works four days a week. wrote this little book about the philosophy of life that she had comprehended in her bumpy life, telling us that although life is impermanent, although fate is uncertain, and although reality often makes us powerless, we can still live a worthwhile life, and the world is still worthy of our gentle treatment.
So, when we go through hardships alone, and even feel that life is difficult and we can't hold on, what wisdom and strength can we draw from Grandma Hengzi? Let me share a few points with you.
For example, about work, Grandma Hengzi told us that the root of work is to support ourselves, as for "life value" and "self-growth", it is to wait for oneself to gain a stable foothold, and think slowly in our spare time. Think about a lot of things, are we rushing too much? Shouldn't our souls slow down and wait for our physical bodies? Wouldn't it be nice to experience more of the scenery and joys and sorrows of the moment?
You have to be rich", "You have to be successful", "You have to get married", "You have to be happy", don't we often hear such words, but people won't tell you that if you have money, you must be happy? What is the definition of success? Is life fulfilled when you get married? What is the experience of happiness?
So, in the opinion of Grandma Hengzi. Many times, what we do is not succumb to our own true inner thoughts, but are driven by the values that society and others give us, that is, we carry a lot of extra bags. A lot of "musts" that are considered correct tend to make us fall into the cycle of desire. People still have to live for themselves, not for others.
Many people often feel inferior, such as others are very decisive in doing things, and they are always looking ahead; Others have a lively personality and always talk in the crowd, while they themselves are very introverted. Not good at words. So I often blame myself, why do I have so many shortcomings?
In Grandma Hengzi's view, people's personality traits are not simply black and white, not simply extroverted and introverted. Instead, each has its own advantages and disadvantages, and the key depends on how you play. There is no perfect person, people should not pursue perfection too much, there is no need to compare with others, life is very long, the world is also very rich, not only who can shine, do your best, there will be opportunities.
In the book "The World is Worthy", Grandma Hengzi told us a lot of wisdom in life, this book is not long, but every word contains the true meaning of life, more like a waking up Hengyan, if you feel that life is boring, if you are overwhelmed by life and fate, then you might as well read it, maybe you will re-understand, why the world is worth it. Life is not worth wasting.
The book is very brief, the book tells the story of a Tsuneko who has worked for more than seventy years in Nara, Japan, and is a doctor in a psychiatric department.
Grandma Hengzi didn't treat her work out of love at first, she worked just because she wanted to make money to support herself, but she thought that as long as it was work, she should do it seriously and find happiness in her workAnd her mood has also changed from "working for life" to "finding happiness in work".
She is also Japan's Osamu Dazai, Yukio Mishima and others are all beautiful in mourning, often saying that the world is not worth it, but Grandma Hengzi tells you that the world is worth it, born like a summer flower, living in the moment. Grandma Hengzi talks about troubles, loneliness, life and death, and sleep in this book.
This book is very bland to read, will make you feel a kind of sincerity, will make you feel comfortable,This will make you want to keep reading.
Whether the world is worth it or not, this is your own decision, you can create extraordinary in your ordinary, and in doing so, your life will be very worthwhileHuman life is long and not long, birth, old age, sickness and death are inevitable, but you can choose among them.
Like the sentence "life, as long as it can illuminate a certain place" in the book, it has brought comfort to many people, as long as they live well, they are the best, and Grandma Hengzi follows her heart, lives her own wonderful, and at the same time brings happiness to others.
If you are more confused and lost in your life right nowJust read the book "The World Is Worthy" so that you will find your purpose and face life better.
When we face the same problem, different ages will have different opinions, so you can learn from Grandma Hengko's ideasAfter you finish reading this book, you will find a lot of inspiration.
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Finally, I would like to borrow a sentence from the book to encourage you:The years ahead are long, and it's still worth looking forward to!