20 years ago, China entered a stage of rapid economic development, at this stage, many people made money, and the gender environment at that time was not as bad as it is now.
At that time, men were still willing to share wealth with women, and many women married and achieved a class leap in the stage of rapid economic development of the country.
Then the women who have achieved the class jump will create an illusion for other women: I am similar to them, not worse than them, I can also match such a high-quality man, and I can also achieve a class jump through marriage.
They will not realize that the previous women's class leap through marriage is the result of the dividends of the times.
Therefore, today's marriageable women, even women with poor conditions, have a very high threshold for choosing a mate, and starting a family is not a rigid need for them, but a tool to achieve class jump.
In addition, in the relationship between the sexes, licking dogs and turtle men are rampant, and they have no lower limit to curry favor with women.
In women, they do not hesitate to pay high economic costs, emotional costs, time costs, and even trample on their dignity and hurt their own vital interests to please them.
This makes women's thinking have a kind of confusion, feeling that women's gender value is above men, feeling that they are a very scarce resource, very attractive, every man wants to get her, even girls with poor appearance, will also have such an outrageous illusion.
In addition, women have a very strange brain circuit, and they will feel that as long as a boy is interested in her, they want to choose her for a long time.
They don't often talk about how people who have been protected by lions look down on wild dogs.
Some women have been in a relationship with high-quality men, although they have broken up, but they will feel that since these high-quality men will fall in love with them, it is enough to prove that they are fully worthy of these high-quality men, and these men are hoping to choose her for a long time.
Although they broke up, it was because they didn't have enough fate, they didn't meet the right person at the right time, or because they were deficient in their own operations, then when they chose a mate again, the threshold for mate selection would be very high.
In short, the vast majority of women nowadays are very speculative in their gender relationships, hoping to achieve a class leap and live the good life they imagined with the help of marriage.
But now the marriage rate is declining year by year, and more and more men don't want to pay for women.
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