Text|Wang Hugo.
There is a feeling, like fog, rain and wind, which makes people feel sweet, heartwarming and a little confused, that is ambiguous. Ambiguity is like a poison, addictive, and you want to take an extra sip, but if you really take that step, it will be an extramarital affair that will never be recovered. For the partner, for the family, it is a kind of damage that cannot be returned.
First, when you are in an ambiguous situation, your inner emotions are ambiguous. I really want to see each other, but I don't know where my feelings come from. I just know that meeting will make me feel happy. When a girl consulted, she said that she and a married male colleague in the unit could be considered an affair. Male colleagues seem to take better care of her than other colleagues, and they always look at her unintentionally. Ripples slowly rippled in her heart, but she knew very well that the other party was married, so she had been restraining herself from this emotion. She said that whenever two people were alone, she could feel the air getting warm, and that was the feeling of ambiguity. When in this kind of scene, in fact, many people can't restrain themselves.
Second, the desire to meet each other frequently. In an ambiguous relationship, two people may often find opportunities to chat with each other, or ask each other out for dinner, movies, etc. They want to be able to be with each other more. When the person is not aware of this thought, or has never faced this thought, they will meet frequently, and in their consciousness, we are nothing, we are just friends. But in fact, this kind of affection has gone beyond the scope of ordinary friends.
Three, beyond the ordinary physical intimacy. There is one of the least obvious situations in the ambiguity, that is, the woman's male girlfriends, and the man's female buddies, they are very arrogant in front of outsiders, hooking their shoulders, and even holding hands and hugging in front of their respective partners. Buddies and girlfriends are their shields, but in fact, only they know in their hearts that they crave this kind of intimacy. Even if your partner is uncomfortable, you can't say anything. You ask, "You don't know about our relationship yet, after all these years!" ”
The essence of ambiguity is a state between ordinary friends and extramarital affairs, and as long as one of the two people does not grasp it well, they will definitely enter into an extramarital affair. Therefore, if you find that your partner has an ambiguous partner, you still have to be careful, deal with it calmly, and it is much easier to intervene early than to let it develop. Exclusive benefits for high-quality authors