Cheating is a ** game to satisfy physical desires under the guise of love, and cheating people pave many high-sounding reasons for cheating in order to avoid the condemnation of conscience, which make them pretend that extramarital affairs are helpless, but in the end, those who regard cheating as true love end up losing. To be happy in marriage is to be loyal to each other, and if the marriage breaks down, divorce and remarry. Cheating is not just the excitement of **, but the beginning of life's troubles.
Derailment will completely subvert a person's three views and change a person's original emotional value. Once cheating, people will become liars, in order to cover up the evidence of cheating in marriage, you will use one lie after another to talk to yourself, marriage no longer becomes your solid harbor, but has become your weak heart examination ground, you are always thinking about whether all kinds of details have aroused the suspicion of your partner. You no longer enjoy the warmth and love of your family calmly, you leave your flesh at home like a walking corpse.
You will become confused because you can't control the development of things, you don't know where this boat of desire will eventually sail, and your flesh will gradually fade the original values in pleasure by cheating again and again, and the shame will long be gone, you will be obsessed with the stimulation brought by the flesh, people will become cheaper and cheaper, and finally become a slave of desire.
Happy on a date, miserable when apart, all your life will be spent in this ** contradiction between the two heavens, both partners are invisibly tearing at your conscience, you will feel more and more stressed, and the balance of impulsiveness and reason will never be balanced. You want to end but are afraid of losing, you are afraid of divorce but can't help cheating, you have completely become a double-faced hollow person in the sinking again and again, thinking about the outside when you are at home, thinking about the home when you are outside, and your heart is always wandering outside, with no home.
Cheating is a sharp knife, not only will it harm yourself, but also your partner and children will be huge. All your physical pleasures will become a debt to you in the future, and the Buddhists talk about karma, and this debt will eventually be passed on to your partner and children. Originally, the child could grow up happily in a family full of warmth and love, but because the cheating parents were forced to bear all the disasters, because the emotional loss of control or family conflicts caused by the derailment will cause irreparable damage to the child's young mind. Because children are the weakest people in the family, family conflicts can cause defects in their personalities.
The growth and future of a child is the lifeblood of a family's continuation, and the values of the cheating person will eventually become distorted, and the child's values will also be indirectly affected. When the cheater becomes picky and irritable in order to cover up the guilt, the child becomes cautious at home, and the child attacks himself in an infinite cycle of mother or father's sometimes painful and sometimes happy moments, and they deny themselves and question the meaning of marriage.