Men play a different role in the family than women, most of them work outside the home, trying to earn more money for the family, ensuring the family's normal expenses and quality of life. The first thing a woman does after marriage is to raise her children. The difference in the division of labor between parents causes children to have no deep and clear perception of their father's love, which also directly leads to the filial piety of their children to their parents when they become adults, and the father has a natural disadvantage.
As a mother, from October pregnancy to the birth of a new life, the baby comes from the original amniotic fluid wrapped environment to the unfamiliar environment outside the mother's body, and the mother's warm embrace provides the baby with enough safety experience.
Mothers breastfeed their babies, and prolonged feeding and companionship make babies feel more intimate and dependent on their mother's body odor. At the same time, the mother is the only one who accompanies the child throughout the whole process, which plays a crucial role in the process of establishing intimacy.
The division of labor in the family determines that the mother is the person who has the longest contact with the child, and most of the children's diet and daily life in the early childhood are responsible for the mother, the three meals prepared by the mother for the children, the change of clothes for the children, and the busyness of various housework can be transmitted into the psychology of the children, so that the children have a strong feeling in the process of growing up, and the mother has paid too much for their growth.
As a woman, mothers are more delicate in their emotions, and they can give their children enough attention to the cold and warmth in life, and the crying and laughing in their emotions. Especially during the period when the child is sick and sick, the mother stays awake all night to observe the child's body temperature and state, continuously feeds medicine and drinks, and even carries the child to the hospital late at night for intravenous drips, these actions will be deeply remembered by the children.
Men have a rough personality, most of the time after starting a family will focus on how to make money, less participation in housework and children's upbringing, the role of the father ensures the material foundation, the role of the mother determines the superstructure, the difference in the division of labor between the father and the mother leads the children to only see the mother's contribution, and the career difficulties and pressures experienced by the father can not empathize.
Fathers have less communication with their children because of their work, and their children lack understanding of their father's work. At the same time, the father mainly plays the role of earning money, while the daily expenses and expenses of the children are mostly completed by the mother, and the father has little perception of earning money. Moreover, many fathers live a sloppy life compared to their mothers, and their children are very repulsed by smoking and drinking caused by socializing.
All of the above, children's misunderstanding of the role of the father, they intuitively feel the love from the mother, ** after the support of the parents is also more inclined to the mother, and the father, as the mainstay of the family, is often not treated by the children after old age. In fact, father's love is as great as mother's love, but there are different ways of output, everyone will experience the role of children and parents in their lives, no matter what stage they are in, while loving their mothers, they must be kind to their fathers.