When I was young, I was smart and was a child of someone else's family, with good academic performance, obedient, and helping my parents with housework.
Look at whom, whose children are more sensible, have good school grades, love to work when they go home, and the neighbors love to boast.
I have to admit that such a child is very likable, but do other people's well-behaved children really want to do this?
This is not the case, but they are bearing the burden of thinking that does not match their age, and they just want their parents to worry less and pay more.
Such children are truly intelligent people, but at an ignorant age, they learn the way to live hard.
When you become an adult, you will find that the definition of smart is very complicated, and smart people who can be recognized will be mixed up.
What kind of intelligence will be recognized?
It's when you need to be smart and you happen to be able and able to participate actively.
When you don't need your cleverness, if you are wise and foolish, you will make others look at you with admiration.
It can be seen that the wisdom of adults is the real wisdom if they are foolish.
Some people may disdain this, but in order to survive and develop in a group with impetuous people, we must be more attentive and intelligent.
Smart people will perform, learn a trick, and benefit a lot
1. Be cautious in making friends.
No matter how many friends you have, if you don't have a heart, it means that you have no friends. There are many kinds of friends, and in most cases, there are only a few true friends, and no matter how many they are, they can't be maintained.
If you think that you are touting your friends, then you have to reflect well, people only praise you, there is a high probability of asking for something, there is a plan, once you find that you are flashy and do not have the potential to help him, then it will alienate you.
Smart people, don't say much on their lips, but their hearts are like a mirror, some people are friends at most at a meal, and too much contact will damage their own interests.
2. I don't know the full picture, so I won't comment.
Smart people will not easily believe the words of others, no matter how good you say, it is also from the perspective of protecting their own rights and interests, and it cannot be accepted.
No matter how unbearable you say about others, it's just your opinion, and it doesn't represent the true appearance of that person, so smart people don't follow the crowd.
If you don't know the truth, you have to be neutral, otherwise you will only embarrass yourself, after all, it is ridiculous to deny one thing or one person just because of other people's words.
3. Don't be clever.
In the face of the leader's questioning, honesty is relatively good, no need to say anything else and ignore the left and right, too much cleverness, but being looked down upon by the leader.
No one is stupid, most people choose to be silent, after all, there is no need to add fuel to the people or things that have nothing to do with them, let alone deliberately offend anyone.
Smart people don't easily underestimate others, what you can think of, others will also think, and taking a little smart will only be mistaken by cleverness. In the end, you will only let yourself fall in price, and the gains outweigh the losses.
4. Great wisdom is foolishness.
Really good people don't show intelligence, but hide their strength. Those who achieve great things are not informal, not restrained, but retreat to the second, looking for opportunities to prepare for the start.
Smart people generally don't deliberately show too much, so as not to cause dissatisfaction among others, which is not good for themselves.
If you want to deal with people, you must choose their words and watch their deeds, so as to find like-minded partners.
Whether it's big or small, it's good to be right for yourself, just when it's right and good for yourself.