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Confucius said: See the virtuous and think together, and see the unvirtuous and introspect yourself.
Imitation is the most direct and sophisticated way to learn, find out a smart person around you, do your best to imitate, imitate his way of thinking, imitate his actions and behaviors, is a shortcut to a person's rapid growth.
Today, I will share with your family the usual 8 manifestations of smart people, so that you can quickly identify the smart people around you.
1. Be extremely focused on one thing.
Concentration is one of the criteria for determining whether a person is smart or not. That is, efficient people are not necessarily smart, but smart people are necessarily efficient.
That's not to say that smart people always have their day in order. In fact, many smart people are not diligent, and some are even very lazy, but whether they are diligent and lazy, they can always mobilize all their attention when they need to do something with all their might. During this time, he was able to achieve a degree that was many times more efficient than the average person.
2. Put information first and be curious.
The biggest difference between smart people and ordinary people is the importance they attach to information, they are curious about everything, and they always maintain a posture of understanding.
If you have important information that ordinary people don't know, you can get the right black box and find the shortest way to solve the problem. For example, when decorating, some people will chat with the master more and collect decoration information, while some people are unknown and just on the sidelines. For us, the first step in getting closer to the circle of smart people is to be more sensitive to information. The information collected can help us to easily judge things, and the experience of others is a rare asset.
3. Be good at discovering and seizing opportunities.
One of the main signs that a smart person is considered smart is that he can "stand out" in the general population.
There are many ways for people to stand out, such as relying on hard work, such as relying on connections, such as relying on means, such as relying on information, but no matter what you rely on, smart people will always stand out.
Smart people adopt these methods with only one ultimate goal: to seize the opportunity and stand out. Therefore, you will often see that in the face of opportunities, smart people will be like sharks that smell blood, and they will attack quickly before the people around them can react, and quickly get what they want.
4. Strong comprehension and communication skills.
Smart people are easy to communicate, you know, the essence of communication is the transmission of information.
When talking to smart people, you don't need to say it too clearly, often you only need to say half of it, and smart people will know what you mean, smart people can always know what you want to express, and communicate with smart people, and the exchange is time-saving and labor-saving.
5. Don't pretend to be smart.
A wise man knows that there are people outside of man, and there is a heaven outside of heaven, so he never thinks he is wise.
Because, a really smart person will restrain his own intelligence, and then be humble, respectful, and decent to interact with others and ask for advice, so as to find his own shortcomings, constantly improve himself, and become more intelligent.
6. Refuse useless socialization and be good at being alone.
Low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude, and learning to be alone with yourself is a compulsory course in life.
The so-called useless social activities are social activities that cannot bring any pleasure and progress to one's spirit, feelings, work, and life.
Smart people know that life is short, time is precious, and it is better to socialize with fox friends than with people with special abilities or resources.
7. Resilient and inclusive.
It's hard to find a smart person in a group of fools, because they know how to deal with different people and blend in with them.
They understand the thoughts of people at different levels and positions, and they are fully tolerant of different souls and thoughts, so you rarely see them "taking sides".
8. Know how to refuse at the right time.
Smart people will refuse other people's requests in a timely manner. Many people often use the performance of "responding to requests" to gain the favor of others, but they do not know that this is self-deprecation, and the truly intelligent people will definitely refuse requests that violate their own principles and seriously interfere with their own lives in addition to their own abilities.
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