Two days ago, I swiped a post, netizens went to my boyfriend's house for the first time, saw the way my boyfriend's parents got along, and sighed: It turns out that husband and wife can still get along like this!
When the boyfriend's mother calls her boyfriend's father, she either calls "husband" or his nickname;
My boyfriend's mother accidentally broke the lid of the pot while cooking, and the whole family ran to the kitchen to look, and came out with a smile after finding that there was no major problem;
The boyfriend's mother said what she wanted to do, and if she didn't want to do anything, she didn't do it, and the whole family smiled and said yes;
Netizens remembered their families:
Parents call each other by their first names;
If my mother accidentally broke something, she was silently repairing it, and when my father saw it, she would be blamed and even quarreled;
Basically all the housework in the house is done by the mother, and the father doesn't care about it at all;
Netizens finally said that seeing the way her boyfriend's family gets along, she feels that if this is the case, there is nothing to be afraid of getting married.
yes, what's so scary about getting married?
What is terrible is the endless quarrels after marriage, the endless housework, and the hypocrisy of being accused of emotional instability when pregnant; It's a crying child who has no one to take care of......
My friend Dumb received the certificate last month, and the three-year relationship has entered a new stage.
When she told me that she was going to get married, I also quipped: Why, how did the person who swore that he would "never get married again in this life" become married again?
Dumb had a marriage, and the last marriage was simply a mess.
The two got along well before marriage, but I don't know if "the overall situation has been decided", and the ex-husband gradually exposed his true nature and began to "mess up". The company laid off employees, and the ex-husband stayed at home all day playing games, and the family was all supported by Dumb alone, and even the "you said" and "I said" before marriage all became "said".
After enduring such a marriage for 2 years, Dumb decided to divorce.
Now that Dumb has remarried, I asked Dumb, aren't you afraid of meeting someone like your ex-husband again?
Dumb said that the three-year experience with the current one made her willing and courageous to believe again.
There have been only a handful of quarrels in the past three years, and he can feel Dumb's emotions, not belittled, not ridiculed, no inexplicable machismo, independent enough and will take the initiative to do housework.
I have to say that watching Dumb fall in love for the past three years, her state is getting better and better, sweeping away the previous fatigue and malaise.
I remembered a sentence I saw before: It's not scary to get married, but it's scary to find the wrong person.
I often see someone leaving a message on the Internet "I don't seem to be afraid of getting married", click in and take a look, either it is a sweet clip in an idol drama, or which blogger has posted his sweet daily life.
In fact, people are all the same, yearning for all good things. When you see the life you have in front of you and are sure, you will unconsciously bring yourself into it, hoping that you can live such a life in the future.
I've heard the saying: fear is the unknown.
It is precisely because we are not sure what will happen after marriage that we are afraid of getting married.
Some people are happy after marriage, some people are in a mess after marriage, and now we are in the middle of the "door of perception", we don't know which door we are pushing open, so we will hesitate and be afraid of ......
Since the future is out of control, live the present.
Accumulate enough chips, expand yourself, plan carefully, and when you are strong enough to see real life, and be sure that you can live well no matter which door you open, maybe you won't have so much fear.
In life, only when you see the present can you have a future.