I am the eldest of four siblings born in rural Zhejiang. Once, my family was quite well-off, and my parents ran a factory in their hometown. However, my father, out of a desire to make more money, closed the factory and went to another country to contract the project, leaving me and my siblings to live in their hometown. This parting has made me yearn for a reunited family since I was a child, but I still face loneliness during the Chinese New Year. My parents' long-lost dream of returning came to naught, and the cruelty of life taught me to be strong and responsible at a young age. And now, at the age of thirty-nine, I still haven't written my own happinessMarriage。At this moment, I can't help but think about the entanglement of life choices and family.
Since I was a child, I have been with my grandparents and longed for the return of my parents and a warm family. However, when he was 15 years old, he embarked on a journey to find his parents, only to find that their life in Hainan was even more difficult than in his hometown. His father was in arrears for the project, and his mother was busy taking care of his younger siblings and cooking for the workers. Faced with the plight of my family, I secretly resolved to create a better future for my family. Hard work, from waiter toStart a businessI continue to work hard to give my family a better life.
Expanding: This stage of life is a bumpy road on my growth path, and it is also a testimony of my strength and growth. Part-time work outside the homeStart a businessDuring the day, I took on the responsibility of taking care of my younger siblings, insideStressHeavy and firm. Every hard work is to make the family live a better life. And this sense of responsibility and responsibility also stimulates the motivation in my heart to continue to work hard, so that I can continue to move forward.
I've worked hard all the way, and I'm hereStart a businessThere were twists and turns on the way, from selling furniture to opening a furniture factory, and then to selling goods in live broadcastsStart a businessThe arduous journey. As the business expanded, so did the wealth, and now he owns a property and savings. However, in the face of relatives and friends of the blind date arrangement andSocialofMarriageStress, but I have not been able to find the right other half. My mother's urging and anxiety forced me to face the dilemma of being unmarried, and my heart swelled with contradictions between family responsibilities and personal choices.
Expanding: In the process of reviving my career, I have experienced enduranceStress, the stage of challenging traditional ideas. In the face of the expectations of the family andSocialofMarriageconcept, I am deeply trapped in the dilemma of choice, and my heart is full of contradictions. The hard work and sweat have been exchanged for material wealth, but the soul is wandering in loneliness and helplessness. I understand,MarriageIt is a major event in life, and I need to find a partner who truly knows how to cherish and tolerate, which makes me cherish my choices even more.
At the urging of my family, I continued to participate in blind dates, but I repeatedly hit a wall. Various factors such as the family conditions and concepts of the blind date object have become obstacles, so that the blind date has become an obstacle to the situationMarriageIt has not been possible. And in the process of blind date, I met a lotWonderfulExperience, some of the other party lacked sincerity, some of the communication hit a wall, and some even had financial disputes, so I was rightMarriageThere is a struggle between expectations and reality.
Expansion: Parental pursuitMarriage's anticipation made me fall into the whirlpool of blind dates. All kinds of blind date experiences made me feel the huge gap between reality and ideals, and my family'sMarriageConcept withSocialofStressIt also left me struggling. The strange blind date experience not only made me feelMarriageThe choice was not easy, and at the same time, it also made me reflect on the meaning of life and the needs of my heart.
Facing the expectations of the family andSocialI began to think about my life choices. SelectStart a businessIn the days of leaving my hometown and struggling outside, I experienced loneliness and struggle, but also felt the taste of self-reliance and freedom. However, I have always been grateful for my parents' expectations and care, and I have tried to understand and repay my family's love for me in my own way.
Expanding: On the path of choosing independence and freedom, I am constantly searching for my inner voice and hopes for the future. Away from home, set outStart a businessOn the way, I experienced loneliness and struggle, and I was tested physically and mentally. But I always have a grateful heart and respect and understand my family's expectations and concerns. I know that family is the source of bonding and strength, and it is also the driving force for me to move forward.
(1) Understand your family and understand your life
Home is the harbor of people's hearts, and family affection is the eternal power. After going through all sortsMarriageTroubles and familyStressAfter that, I gradually realized that behind the expectations and care of my family, there was a commitment and responsibility to me. AlthoughMarriageThere are many twists and turns, but I understand that understanding the starting point of family members and respecting each other's choices is the true way to family harmony. Facing the future, I am willing to meet the challenges of life and appreciate the beauty of life with a more mature mentality, a more tolerant and open-minded state of mind.
In the family's expectations withSocialofStressunderneath, I went throughMarriageConfusion and trouble. However, it was the love and understanding of my family that made me gradually understand that I should face life choices with tolerance and understanding. After experiencing the ups and downs and struggles of life, with the company and support of my family, I am willing to bravely meet the challenges of the future with a stronger and more mature attitude, and firmly believe that happiness will eventually come unexpectedly.
The article is based on my upbringing in my family andMarriageThe dilemma is a clue to show the family relationshipMarriageConfusion and contradiction of ideas. In the face of family expectations andSocialStressWhen I passedStart a business, blind date and other experiences, and gradually realize that the love and understanding of family members is the greatest motivation on the road of life. At the same time, I also learned tolerance and understanding in my life choices, and looked forward to the future with gratitude and firmness. The whole article presents the experience of being in the family by describing personal experiences and mental journeysEmotionMarriageThinking and perception in terms of concepts and other aspects reflect modernitySocialThe complexities and challenges of personal growth and family relationships.