On the road to growth, mental maturity is far more important than age. The difficulties and challenges we face in life are inevitable, but we can choose the attitude we can face them. There is no such thing as perfection in this world, and there are no perfect people. In ordinary life, we sometimes meet extraordinary people, but just like a thick cloud blown away by the wind, no matter how great the tribulation is, no matter how long the night is, light will always come. Changing your inner self is a daunting task.
Since we live in groups, we need to see the mistakes of others before reflecting on ourselves; See the shortcomings of others first, and then understand the dilemmas of others. Those who can't get it and can't catch it need to learn to let go. To let go is to let go of selfish interests and evil thoughts, and to let go of meaningless attachment and stubbornness. When the wind blows, you can watch the flowers fall with a smile, and when the wind stops, you can only look blankly at the sky. Only by knowing how to let go will our lives become more perfect. The more relaxed your heart is, the less you will be hurt; The wider your heart, the greater your happiness.
Life isn't always smooth sailing, and never will be. Sometimes you will encounter misunderstandings, and there is no point in defending them. It's best to laugh it off and find out over time. If you meet someone who disagrees with you, there is no need to discuss them further, it is best to ignore them. People need to be calm because talking too much leads to mistakes. Reflecting on oneself is better than chattering, blaming others does not lead to growth. We have to be able to accept it, but we also have to be able to let go. Take is for survival, put is for life, take is a kind of ability, and put is a kind of wisdom. Some people can't put it down because they can't hold it, and some people can't put it down because they can't take it. If you can't take it, you are destined to be mediocre all your life, you can't let it go, and you are destined to be exhausted.
If you have a peaceful attitude, no one will hate you, and if you have a carefree attitude, you will not be angry. The so-called success is not to see how smart you are, nor to see how you betray yourself, but to see if you can laugh at difficulties, what you can do, and what you should do. If you can't be the sun, be the brightest star; If you can't achieve greatness, do the most beautiful way; If you can't be a star, just be an ordinary person. Everything is a thing of the past, and happiness is the true meaning of life.