Liu Bei, Guan Yu, and Zhang Fei Taoyuan became brothers with different surnames who were rumored to be good stories, and they never gave up on life and death, and finally achieved a career. Guan Yu and Zhang Fei are both strong martial arts and loyal people, and they have become idols in the hearts of many people. But no one is perfect, and both of these people have very fatal character weaknesses, which lead to their common tragic ending, and they are both in different places. We should learn our lessons.
Guan Yu: Arrogant, not modest and cautious enough, often say no words
Guan Yu is the embodiment of loyalty, and is regarded as Guan Gong by later generations, and there are many things worth learning from him, but because of his arrogance and lack of modesty and prudence, he finally ended up defeated in Maicheng and ended up in a different place.
People can be arrogant, but not arrogant. Guan Yu gives people the impression that he is overconfident, a little arrogant, and often says no words, leaving no room for himself. Specific examples:
1. The first time was to warm wine and cut Huaxiong. Yuan Shao disliked him as a horse worker and had no official position, so he was not allowed to fight Huaxiong. He said that if he does not kill Huaxiong, he is willing to come to see him. That's a bit of a blunt.
2. The second time is to cut Yan Liang. Cao Cao reminded him that Yan Liang was very powerful and should be more careful. He said, I look good at the face like a label to sell the first! This is also a bit crazy.
3. The third time was after the Battle of Chibi, Zhuge Liang did not assign him a task, he said that in Huarong Daoru let Cao Cao go, he was willing to engage in military law, and also made a military order. As a result, everyone knows that Guan Yu still let Cao Cao go and went back on his word.
4. The fourth time was during the period of guarding Jingzhou, Sun Quan sent someone to propose marriage and wanted to form a family with Guan Yu. He said that the tiger girl married the dog. If you don't want to, why do you say such hurtful things? It was because of this sentence that Sun Quan finally made up his mind to attack Jingzhou, which eventually led to his defeat in Maicheng and his own life. Liu Bei's group lost the possibility of unifying the Central Plains.
To sum up, in Guan Yu, the lesson that we ordinary people should learn is to be modest and cautious, not to speak wildly, and to leave room for doing things.
Zhang Fei: Drinking and making mistakes, being too harsh on his subordinates.
Zhang Fei is a coarse and fine person, when Yang Qiaotou used clever tricks, one person drank Cao Cao's millions of soldiers; He also released Yan Yan, surrendered a general, and broke Cao General Zhang He by pretending to be drunk, all of which reflected his brave and resourceful side. However, he is prone to alcoholism and loses his mind when he is drunk, which eventually leads to a different end.
1. The first time he guarded Xuzhou, Liu Bei and Guan Yu went to fight with Yuan Shu and asked him to guard Xuzhou, he promised not to drink, but he was still drunk, and he also forced his subordinate Cao Bao to drink, and after knowing that Cao Bao was a relative of Lu Bu, he beat him violently. As a result, Cao Bao and Lu Bu joined forces at night, Zhang Fei lost Xuzhou, and Liu Bei's family also fell into the hands of Lu Bu.
2. The second time was after Guan Yu's death, Zhang Fei took revenge on Guan Yu and asked his subordinates to make how many white helmets and white armor they made within three days. The subordinates were severely beaten, and the last two subordinates cut off the head of Zhang Fei, who was snoring like thunder after drinking to drown his sorrows, and sent it to Dongwu.
To sum up, Zhang Fei's inspiration to us is that we can't get drunk and spread the wind and persecute our subordinates.
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