The girls in the TV series are really loved.
They are both wise and beautiful, beautiful and ironic, calm and calm, strong and brave, generous and decisive, and have a degree of advance and retreat.
In short, every quality is enviable and desirable.
But Rome was not built in a day, and they were able to become heroines with their own halos, and they were slowly cultivated bit by bit.
Today I have summarized 25 suggestions for improving the pattern.
I hope that all girls can also become the heroines of their own lives through their own efforts.
No longer be trapped by trivial matters, and finally take your destiny into your own hands, and also live your own wonderful life.
1.Don't worry about small things, and stay sober in big things.
That is to say, we can carry it clearly, and we can distinguish which is more important, and we will not lose a big one because of a small loss, throw watermelons and pick up sesame seeds.
2.You can enjoy the best and you can withstand the worst.
Don't be burdened by material things, you can enjoy a meal elegantly at a high-end restaurant or a street stall.
3.Knowing the world but not the world, the history is sleek and naïve, and he is good at self-deprecation but not mocking others.
After thousands of sails, he does not dislike the poor and loves the rich, treats people sincerely, and maintains his original intention to the world.
4.Not affected by the evaluation and voice of the outside world, and firmly follow your own path inside.
5.Be responsible and responsible, and dare to bear the consequences of your choices.
6.Calm down in the face of trouble, open the road in the mountains, build bridges in the water, and do not feel sorry for yourself.
7.If you can afford it, you can put it down. Don't cry for spilled milk, don't dwell on the past, and truly live in the present.
8.Stay focused, single-minded and highly focused, both emotionally and at work.
9.Do not gain a sense of identity from others, have your own judgment in doing things, and do not influence your own choices because of the preferences of others.
10.Focus on your own development, don't compare yourself with others, only compare yourself with yesterday's self.
11.Strong sense of self-boundaries, dare to refuse other people's requests, and are not afraid to alienate others because of rejecting others.
12.Don't run away from things you hate or are not good at.
There are many things in life that you don't want to do, and people with strong hearts know that this is the only way to grow.
Running away will only stop you in the same place, and instead of running away, it is better to look straight and let yourself grow.
13.Both financially and personally remain independent and not dependent on anyone.
Whether it is a parent or a partner, I firmly believe that only I can give myself an eternal sense of security, and I am my most powerful backer.
14.Read books, travel all the way, see all kinds of people and things, and don't get trapped in your own world and can't extricate yourself.
15.Dare to refuse others if you are not sure, and do not easily promise to others, but what you promise will be fulfilled.
16.Have your own opinions, have your own ideas and opinions, know what you want, and dare to give up.
17.Kind-hearted, able to put yourself in the shoes of others, able to give comfort and tolerance.
18.Instead of telling people about their difficulties and misfortunes, they actively find ways to solve them.
19.Have a strong heart, will not be a glass heart at every turn, sensitive and fragile.
If you encounter the slightest difficulty or setback, you will have to die or live.
20.Keep an open mind, even if you are at a low point in your life, you are still optimistic about life and positive.
21.After making a choice, you will go all out, accept the best and bear the worst results, and will not suffer from gains and losses due to the good or bad results.
22.Be willing to invest in yourself, whether internal or external, and believe that investing in yourself is a sure thing.
23.Know how to stop losses in time on unworthy people and things, and bravely give up your heart.
24.Never complain, there are no perfect parents in the world, and there is no perfect partner, the key is to look at one thing from a perspective.
25.Don't please others, and calmly face the dislikes of others. Even if the other party has a noble status, he can be neither humble nor arrogant.
Why do we all like big heroines with their own halos?
I think the most important thing is that they have the courage and ability to take their destiny into their own hands.
May we all be such girls! Share!
I'm Murphy and the Fish, a funny and profound young lady who focuses on self-improvement