Hello dear friends! Today I want to talk to you about the second half of my life. Many successful people or experienced masters will always give some valuable advice, and Mr. Luo Xiang is one of them. He once said, "In the second half of his life, he has to get rid of four things." It made me think for a long time, and it is true that sometimes we get too much attention to superficial, false things and lose sight of the most important things.
First of all, the first thing we have to throw away is the unreal layer of plastic skin. It's like in real life, you always have to put on a fake mask to make other people look like you're doing well. However, doing so does not bring true joy and peace. On the contrary, if we can be honest and honest with others, we can gain more understanding and respect, and gain true friendship and companionship.
Secondly, Mr. Luo Xiang suggested that we should get rid of those meaningless worries and troubles. We often worry about this, worry about that, and our lives are in a mess. But what's the use of that? Our lives are meant to be enjoyed, not to be busy thinking about things that haven't happened yet. Therefore, in life, we still have to maintain an optimistic attitude in order to deal with various difficulties and challenges more calmly.
Furthermore, we need to get rid of the inherent complaints and complaints. It is inevitable that we will encounter all kinds of frustrations and feelings of loss in life, and what we need to face is to face them with a positive attitude, rather than falling into endless complaints and decadence. This will not solve any problems, but also have a negative impact on the people around you. If you change your way of thinking and look at the difficulties and challenges in life with a more open attitude, you may be able to discover a new world.
Finally, Mr. Luo Xiang pointed out that we need to say goodbye to those false "friends". Some people appear to be our friends on the surface, but in fact they have their own little calculations in their hearts, and this relationship is not strong and can break down at any time. And what is truly worth cherishing are those who can support and understand us unconditionally, and they are the real nobles in our lives.
So, how do you do that? In fact, it is very simple, first of all, we must boldly admit our own shortcomings, and there is no need to pursue perfection too much - no one is perfect; Then adjust your mood and turn negative emotions into positive motivation; You also have to have the courage to express your opinions, and don't always hide your true self, which will only make your life more and more tiring. Of course, remember to cherish those who treat us with sincerity and don't miss out on real friends because of the superficial bubble of hypocrisy.
As for me, after receiving the teaching of Mr. Luo Xiang, I began to be willing to accept my weaknesses, work hard to learn new knowledge and skills, and constantly improve myself. At the same time, I also learned that instead of spending time complaining and dwelling on those unnecessary anxieties, it is better to pay more attention to the present and make myself as comfortable and happy as possible. Therefore, I would like to pass on these suggestions from Mr. Luo Xiang to you, hoping to inspire you.
In general, let's be truly honest, confident, and responsible in the second half of our lives, and no longer be bothered and nagged by those unnecessary troubles. Only in this way can we truly live a simple, relaxed, and positive life, and no longer be subject to those superficial efforts of hypocrisy. Have a great day!