There is no predecessor that cannot be forgotten, only an predecessor who has not been replaced. If you have doubts about your boyfriend, you always feel that something is wrong with him, sometimes enthusiastic, sometimes cold. If you can't figure out how much he feels for your ex, you might as well take a seat with the following behaviors.
1. Compare you with your ex and feel that you are not doing well.
A man who is relieved of his ex will not intentionally or unintentionally, and often mention his ex in front of you, first of all, he has let go of that relationship, and then he has more expectations for his current love, and will not choose to hurt you in this way, one is that there is no purpose, and the other is that he is afraid that you will mind.
If he cherishes the feelings he has with you, he will even deliberately avoid them. On the topic of your ex, when you mention your ex, you may move to say something else, and you will secretly look at your face, in order to avoid unpleasantness, afraid of your crankiness, some boys who care about you will also make up some white lies to lie to you, such as he will say that he has never loved, he was young and didn't understand love at that time, where can she compare to you, and use these words to show you your place in his heart.
And if the other party deliberately exaggerates the advantages of your predecessors and compares your shortcomings, knowing that you are unhappy, you still want to do this, and use the shadow of your ex to suppress you as a means to achieve your goals, which means that he really thinks that your ex is better than you.
Second, I have been in touch with my ex.
He may keep in touch with his ex under various names, such as friends, classmates, colleagues, etc. In short, I just pretended to be confused, just to keep you from squeaking. It's not that you can't be friends if you break up, but with the current situation, you still won't set boundaries and bottom lines for yourself, so that the shadow of your ex can intervene anytime and anywhere, without a bottom line.
And for the life of her ex, she is very curious and always wants to know, such as checking each other's ** number or Weibo every day, and always saying that her ex's current love life is not suitable for her.
3. I don't cherish you enough and always treat you indifferently.
If in the process of two people being with each other, he is always hot and cold and doesn't care about you, in fact, in a very big case, it means that he thinks you are not as good as your ex.
Enough love in the relationship is to regard your status high enough, even if there are still past emotions in the memory, he will deliberately cover up or try to forget, but on the contrary, he doesn't care about your going or staying, and he doesn't care too much about your emotional changes, your feelings are not important to him, and the subtext in his heart is that I don't care if you leave.