When you go home for the Chinese New Year, were you forced by your parents to go on a blind date? The most heard sentence is: "If you don't meet, you say you don't like it, get to know each other first, and then make friends."
In fact, there is no need to rush to deny the blind date arranged by the parents, the blind date still has certain benefits, such as: the basic situation of both parties has a preliminary understanding before meeting; The purpose is also very clear, it is all based on the premise of marriage, which can improve efficiency, save time and save costs; Because it is introduced by an acquaintance, it is more reliable ...... in comparison. We don't have to be in a hurry to refuse, others just introduce people to us, we can chat first, observe, just make friends, and the final decision is still in our hands.
Blind dates also have their disadvantages: lack of romance, strong purpose, acquaintance introduction is a bit embarrassing in case it doesn't work, and it is difficult to really understand a person's ...... in a short time.
So on a blind date, can you meet true love? The answer is yes, blind date is just a way for you to get to know this person, the key is to look at the person, look at our own feelings.
If there is a choice, I believe that most young people will choose free love, the advantage of free love is: we choose our own decision, from the initial romance to experience a lot, there is a deep emotional foundation, and we also understand the advantages and disadvantages of both parties, if you enter marriage, married life will be more stable. However, for marriage, free love also has its risks, such as: dating for too long, exposing each other's defects more, and making it more difficult to get married; Parents will disagree because of the wrong household; The cost is high, and it takes a lot of time, experience, and emotional .......
A netizen said: "We have been talking for 8 years, in order to make him have a better job, I quit my job to do laundry and cook at home to take care of him, I didn't expect that when it came to getting married, my mother's side asked for 80,000 dowry, he couldn't accept it, said I was realistic, proposed to break up, and later heard from a mutual friend that he decided to give 300,000 dowry to the girl he met on a blind date for 3 days." It's ridiculous, I spent 8 years of my youth, after all, I met on a blind date for a few days."
So is it better to go on a blind date or free love? In fact, blind dates are not as bad as we think, and free love is not as good as we think. At the end of the day, it depends on how the person is. Some people have found their true love through blind dates, and some people have been talking for several years without any results.
Blind date and free love are just a way, and there is no necessary connection with whether you can get love.
Whether it's a blind date or free love, two people need to go both ways, rely on each other, and face ...... together.
We have to learn how to love and how to manage a hard-won relationship.
What about you, will you choose a blind date or free love?