Entanglement in Marriage: The Story Behind a Woman's Cheating.
Dear readers, let's dive into a controversial topic – infidelity in marriage. Normally, we are more likely to focus on the betrayal of men, however, in the turmoil of marriage, women can also fall into the quagmire of cheating for various reasons.
The Feast of Love: The Dedication of Youth].
Looking back at girls in their teens and twenties, they are in their youth and have endless longing for love. Once in love, they tend to be unreservedly engaged, preoccupied, and uncompromising.
However, as they grew older and marriage arrived, love was no longer the only subject of concern between the two. The trivial things in marriage gradually affect the relationship between husband and wife, and the satisfaction that cannot be obtained in marriage is easily attracted by the outside world.
Therefore, women tend to appear in these two periods during the high incidence period of marriage.
The Interweaving of Sex and Affection: The Cheating of Women in the Movie "Fidelity".
It has been said that men cheat because of sex, and women betray because of love. The movie "Loyalty" delicately shows the details of a woman in her 30s cheating. The heroine Lena is an obstetrician-gynecologist, and her husband Sergey is a theater actor. Although both have successful careers, their marriage is not satisfactory. The lack of passionate relationship, the lack of companionship and emotional communication, and the insatiable physical desire made Lena feel dull and depressed.
Until Lena discovers the "evidence of cheating" in her husband's phone, all the indifference seems to find an explanation. Enraged, Lena decides to respond to her husband in the same way.
From her point of view, this vindictive infidelity is more like a maintenance of self-worth and dignity, proving that she is not wholeheartedly approaching marriage.
However, the plot takes a turn of the penny. When Lena's betrayal was followed, the couple had a frank conversation and found that the alleged cheating of her husband was just a misunderstanding, and Lena's "revenge" had lost its basis.
At the end of the movie, the couple's marriage has not broken down, on the contrary, the husband forgives his wife, and the relationship between the two has become closer. However, after intimacy, her husband always can't help but ask for details about Lena's cheating, and even thinks that cheating is her nature.
At the age of 40: Women who are confused are at increased risk of cheating].
Crossing the threshold of 30 years old, the 40 year old slope seems to be even steeper. After the age of 40, women are no longer young and pure, but gradually wither after blooming.
Some people say that women at this stage are most likely to cheat, which is related to their fear of facing themselves and facing the loss of their heyday, and it has nothing to do with marriage, but is inextricably linked to self-indulgence and the search for pleasure.
At this time, women may be materially wealthy, but spiritually and emotionally lacking. Their emotional needs are ignored, as if at this stage, it seems ridiculous to talk about feelings.
However, the essence of human beings is still the pursuit of loving and being loved, caring and being cared for. Since they can't stand the loneliness, they keep searching.
Bound Desires: The Desire for Outside Care].
Why did the "Xiucai", who attracted much attention some time ago, emerge in the aunt world? Because he subtly touched on their emotional needs. In the ** of "Xiucai", they are pure women, who are seen, appreciated, and worthy of confession.
Lust can be limited by shame or released by wildness. At this time, the care and emotional comfort from outside marriage can most stir up the waves of their dull life.
They crave this kind of warmth, and even if they understand that it is immoral and wrong, they can't help but yearn for it.
However, cheating is wrong for both men and women. On this topic, we should not only criticize, but also think about how to manage the marriage and how to treat the partner.
The essence of marriage: loyalty is the bottom line].
What exactly is marriage? It is two people forming a family in order to face the ups and downs of life together, and to be each other's companionship and backing.
The bottom line of marriage is loyalty, no matter how good the reason for cheating, once betrayed, it will fall into a moral trough.
As one netizen said: "In addition to sweetness, the affair is also full of killing sounds." Husbands, love your wives; Wives, love your husbands. Do not step out of the safety zone of your marriage, otherwise, it will bring great disaster and pain to your loved ones and family. ”
Marriage is like walking a tightrope, it is not easy to get and it is even more difficult to keep. I hope that when we face marriage, we can cherish the person in front of us and protect the original vow.
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