In fact, everyone has two little secrets hidden in their hearts, especially the soft and sincere hearts of girls, but subconsciously feel that men may not understand or want to understand.
Let's talk about the first caution of the girls: remind everyone not to share the secrets of good friends with others, such as how many good friends have been in love, whether there is **, whether there is cheating, although you think this is a private thing that they should respect and protect, but you must know that your husband may also be afraid in his heart, worried that you are not reliable enough, besides, you don't want your husband to help other female classmates easily, after all, there is a saying on the road: fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriends! Whether it's family and friends, or good sisters, try to keep your distance so that you don't suffer in the future! I've encountered a lot of this kind of thing around me, and some girlfriends will get very close to their husbands, and even call them quite affectionately, but when you are tragically betrayed by friendship, love, and family at the same time, you are really uncomfortable to death!
Let's talk about the second caution of girls: they rarely take the initiative to tell the boys how many people they have talked to, how good they have been or how many mistakes they have made, but they also like to be chased and loved. Those traditional concepts always think that there are many boys who chase girls, but in fact, in the bottom of the girl's heart, she completely longs for the crazy love of a man like a nervous disorder! They want to be held in the palm of their hands, as treasures, surrounded by love!
So, oh dear ones, remember, if the little girl says "it's okay" to you, maybe people are looking for you for warmth and comfort! Don't look at them saying it's okay, in fact, they may be waiting for your understanding and love in their hearts! Don't underestimate their mood and needs, as long as you pay attention to their little signs, you will definitely find that their vulnerable situation is not the same as you imagined, and it is more resilient than you assume.
So how can you be a boy who really understands and considerates girls? The secret is to learn to listen to girls! Not only the words on the surface, but also a deep understanding of the meaning behind the words! When she replied "It's okay", it doesn't mean that there really is no problem, she just wants you to care and love her a little more!
Another piece of advice is to learn to observe girls carefully! By observing their facial expressions, body movements, and voice tones, you can understand their emotional changes and needs. For example, look at her when she looks at you, does she have some kind of unknown expectation in her eyes? Or when you laugh, do you feel a bit far-fetched? These are the little details you should notice!
And then - try to sense the mood of the girl with your heart! Girls' hearts are as delicate as silk, very sensitive, and all their emotional changes are worth listening to and feeling. If she suddenly became reticent, was it because you ignored her feelings? If she suddenly sheds tears, and you don't know what to do, then you have to review it! Pay more attention to her behavior, and you will find that she relies on and trusts you much more than you know!
The last point worth emphasizing is to learn to cherish her every outpouring and cherish the vulnerable and strong side she shows you. Send her in action: let her know that you support her unconditionally, are willing to help protect from the elements, and are even willing to give everything for her.
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