Today I read an article about the marriage of Liu Qiangdong and Zhang Zetian, the article talks about what kind of family is right from beginning to end, how to combine interests, how to join hands in public relations, etc., anyway, not only does the whole article not have the word "love", but also the word "feelings". Listening to it, my head exploded, it was very harsh.
The uncomfortable point is that it is obviously talking about the company, the stock price, and the market value. Why do you have to have anything to do with marriage? I do not exclude cooperation and division of labor, but a naked combination of interests. Makes me wonder what it means to get married. Could it be that without Zhang Zetian, Jingdong would have laid off Liu Qiangdong.
I think Chinese are already sick and don't know it, the purpose of marriage is for love, and there should be other feelings without love. If it's just to start a company, then open it. Can't start a company without getting married? Do you have to get married when you start a company?
This reminds me of what Musk once said:There is nothing happier in life than to have love and career, and if the career is successful, then half the happiness is there. If there is no love, then half of the happiness in life is missing.
It can be seen that even if people are billions of money, they also admit that love is an indispensable part of a happy life.
If China's rich people can't help it, there are too many interests involved. But on the other hand, those rich people in foreign countries, they are all married several times. Their marriage doesn't seem to be as lethal to the company's market value as ours.
Take Murdoch's third wife Wendi Deng as an example, what do you think Murdoch looked for Wendi Deng at that time? If it wasn't for the inclination towards love, then Wendi Deng had nothing at that time, and the only thing that could give Murdoch was love.
In the eyes of the Chinese, love is insignificant, and it has to give way to too many things. But ordinary people and bigwigs from other countries have entered into marriage again and again. Even if you know that you will get divorced, you will divide your property. But next time they still choose love and marriage. Could it be that Musk, Murdoch, those people don't have our money, and they are behind us?
The developed countries are not only developed because they completed the industrial revolution early, but also because their culture is also ahead of the curve. They believe in the existence of love, and they uphold the principle of entering marriage because of love. Even if they don't enter into marriage, they still believe in love. In their lives, love and career are two different parts of life, and they will not castrate love for the sake of it, nor will they give up their career for the sake of it. Their lives, loves, and careers will intersect, but they won't be completely confused. They are loyal to their careers and loyal to their careers, and they are loyal to their loves
My opinion on their multiple marriages is:Who said love can only be once。As long as the marriage entered because of love is a moral marriage. If you break up peacefully after marriage because of the inconsistency of pace, it is also a respect for the feelings of both parties. And next time, they still got married again because they met a new love.
And it is precisely that our marriage is mixed with too many calculations, so even if it is very uncomfortable, there will still be many other factors in the mind, and in the end, think about it, it is better not to leave. It's okay if they can be content with the status quo, but they always want to find a job outside of marriage to supplement the lack of his existing marriage. Which one do you think is more moral and which one is more immoral?
Of course, I don't want to criticize our people, because sometimes our living conditions are only caused by the stages of the country's historical process, if we are not born in the new poverty alleviation, survival is not guaranteed, and we still need to fight and compete to obtain survival resources. Maybe we won't emasculate our feelings, our love. February** Dynamic Incentive Program