He Yu has already entered the threshold of forty years old, most of her friends around her have already entered marriage, and some children are about to enter the university hall; However, He Yu himself is still alone. In the past, my attitude towards love was unwilling to compromise, but now although I want to give in, I find that it is difficult to find a partner anymore.
He Yu also had several relationships when she was young, when she was full of passion and blindly pursued the ultimate in love, which was both fanatical and heart-wrenching. She used to be proud, thinking that time was still long, and the matter of marriage could wait until she was talked, even if her family urged her, she never took it to heart.
When it was time to discuss marriage, He Yu began to be afraid, feeling that it was a terrible thing to spend the rest of his life with a man, so he became too strict about choosing a spouse.
But looking for a flawless companion**? He Yu was reluctant to give her hand to those who were not satisfied, and as others achieved positive results one after another, she was still alone. Now, even some of her friends have entered their second marriage, and she is alone for no other reason, she has not met a man who meets her standards, and she is not willing to compromise easily.
With the passage of time, He Yu has been forty years old, and her single life has made her gradually realize that the cause she sows, no matter what kind of bitter fruit she bears, she has to taste it alone.
The pain of "leftover women" is unmistakable: it was not until the age of forty that He Yu realized that refusing to compromise was nothing more than self-destruction.
Love is not about refusing to compromise, but about meeting the "just right" person. He Yu had the idea of getting married several times, especially her third boyfriend. That man not only has a successful career, but as an executive of a foreign company, he is both talented and charismatic, and he also cares for He Yu.
Everyone thought that their relationship would enter the palace of marriage, but at the moment of decision, He Yu chose to give up, she said: "I know he is very good, but it seems that something is missing between us, maybe the time is not yet ripe." ”
I can't get a glimpse of He Yu's thoughts, but in my eyes, the reason why she hesitates is not because there is something missing in the relationship, nor is it because the time has not come, but because she herself does not know what she wants.
The best love is not to persist in uncompromising, but when you desire happiness, it happens to come to you, if you lack the courage to meet it, how can you talk about happiness?
It is better to choose someone who loves you than to wait for someone you love. All along, He Yu has a man friend with an excellent relationship, and anyone with a discerning eye can see that the man is in love with her. However, in her eyes, he was just a best friend, and the man finally entered into marriage under the arrangement of his family, and even so, he was still able to quickly appear by her side whenever He Yu needed it.
Frankly speaking, even though He Yu is aware of the other party's emotions, she always believes that if she doesn't like it, she can't be happy, and even if she gets married, she may not be able to follow her husband.
My opinion is that not all love stories will be one in which you fall in love with you and the other person falls in love with you. Sometimes, it is more tangible to accept the pursuit of someone who loves you than to wait for someone you love. The person who loves you will not deliberately hurt you, will not leave you easily, and over time, you will see his sincerity and may even slowly fall in love with it.
All intransigence is often only a source of misfortune in the end. He Yu realized that his insistence was actually wrong when he was forty. Maybe it's not too late to wake up now, she can still find the person who guards her, and she can still be happy again.
At present, the most fundamental problem of more and more single women is that they are unwilling to compromise. Happiness is close at hand, but I don't want to touch it.
Time waits for no one, and once it is lost, it may be a lifetime. By the time you're full of gray hair, you may not even be able to tell the love words.
Many women regard intransigence as a motto in love, and if they feel that it is inappropriate, not interested, the time has not yet come, or their personalities are incompatible, they will resolutely not consider it. But sometimes, do they really think about what they're thinking? Do they want others to bring them happiness, or do they want to live their lives alone?
seems to have a personality and is full of pursuit of uncompromising feelings, but many people miss out in the process.
If you meet love, cherish it. Happiness is self-created, even if it is not affectionate at first, time will gradually breed emotions in getting along. Slowly getting to know each other, gradually accompaniment, this is the happiness of life. Don't be like that, wait until the end of your life to regret it. Take advantage of your youth and let go of love.