The leftover woman realized: the husbandless woman is empty, and the wifeless man is the main wealth.
Two: As the years go by, where do you find the voices of the older leftover women? What does the future hold for them? As they age, how competitive will they be? If they don't change themselves, how can they compare to young girls?
Would they choose to be proudly single rather than compromised? I'm afraid the result can only be a lonely old age. Don't think that in a few years, they will be able to get married.
Let me tell you, 99 percent of women who are over 35 years old and still single will be celibate until they grow old. Come and hear why these women aren't in a hurry in their 20s.
At that time, they felt that there was still a lot of time and that they should enjoy it first. Looking for a partner is to satisfy one's own vanity and no longer envy the sweetness of others. When they were about 25 years old, their friends and classmates began to get married, and they began to feel confused and surprised.
It turned out that who had entered the palace of marriage again, and the speed was surprising. However, when I think back to being a child, I can't help but have some thoughts about this phenomenon: I also hope that after meeting the right person, I can enter the palace of marriage.
If you fail to meet such a person, then wait slowly while continuing to enjoy life. In the blink of an eye, I was twenty-seven or eighteen years old, and I had played enough, and my friends were all getting married.
I'm starting to get a little anxious, but twenty-seven or eighteen-year-old women are the hardest to find, and the most picky and realistic. Why is that? Because women in their early twenties may get married because of love, they don't care about the material life in the future, they just hope to reap a simple happiness.
However, by the time they are twenty-seven or eighteen years old, their brains have been filled with chicken soup for the soul and Korean dramas, and their expectations and understanding of marriage have also changed.
Why do older leftover women become less anxious when they reach the age of 35? They have experienced various realistic marriages, and their ideal love has been shattered by the impact. The happiness of the people around them often makes them envious and jealous, but they do not learn how to achieve happiness.
Instead, they spend their days with divorced friends and listen to their complaints about their marriages and their complaints about men. Over time, these women become no longer innocent and cute, but they also no longer have great wisdom.
They think they have seen the world, and they think they know everything. Therefore, women of this age are the easiest to worship money and material things, and it is useless for anyone to persuade them. They only focus on finding a man who can provide food and clothing without worry, believing that marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, and it is impossible to settle.
However, when they found out that they were 30 years old, they began to be really anxious. My friends and classmates already have children.
New copywriting: At this age, don't care about face anymore and attack bravely. In the past, I always waited for others to pursue, but now I have begun to take the initiative to find fate.
As soon as I stepped into the blind date market, I felt at a loss. Boys with good conditions often enter the palace of marriage before the age of 30. And those who used to have poor conditions, but now have a successful career, a car and a house, they must want to find a young girl in their 20s, who can accept an older woman in her 30s?
Those who are willing to sit down with you for a chat tend to be older bachelors who don't have a good career, are older, and are less financially well-off. Or it is divorced or second-married, or it is an unmarried pregnant mother.
Whether you are a man or a woman, your looks are only part of your life. Some people think that women are beautiful, and there are still many people who pursue them when they are 30 years old, and this is of course.
But if a woman is really beautiful, there will definitely be suitors before the age of 30 and may be married. But if she thinks she's beautiful but she's actually ugly, then she may find it difficult to attract good-conditioned, normal guys.
Every blind date disappoints her, and by the time she is 35 years old, she may have given up. She suddenly discovered that it was good to live alone, and she didn't necessarily have to get married to have offspring.
Marriage is not a process of finding happiness, but a journey of two people who rely on each other and tolerate each other to grow together. The happiest couples are not the original couples or halfway couples, but those who understand, support and support each other.
Between husband and wife, they do not seek to be outstanding, but to understand each other; Don't ask for wealth, just for each other's company. In the life of a couple, we need to respect and tolerate each other, only in this way can we truly feel happy.
Between husband and wife, quarrel without holding grudges, discuss big things together, and forgive small things together, this is a real happy marriage. On the road of life, we will encounter various setbacks and difficulties, but as long as we have each other, we can spend it together, and this is happiness.
Have you ever wondered if the older leftover woman came to understand after the age of 40 that a man without a husband is like a boat without a backbone, and a woman without a husband is like a boat that has lost her reliance and can only drift alone in the ocean of life?