Whether a man really loves you, or plays emotional games, look at these 2 points to know

I like a passage from Yang Jiang:

Those who care about you will take care of your emotions, and those who love you will share your joys and sorrows.

Some people think you're not good enough, and some people think you're good at everything.

Sincere love will flow out of the heart like a pouring moonlight, when he falls in love with you but is unwilling to express it, don't worry, his attitude towards you can be easily judged from these two aspects.

In the TV series "Parents' Love", Jiang Defu, who wants to be meritorious and knowledgeable, is a good young man with red roots and a bright future.

An Jie is a bourgeois lady, not only has her identity become the "original sin" that others can't avoid, but even her good looks have become a weakness to be attacked.

But at a dance, Jiang Defu fell in love with An Jie at first sight, this is not an impulse of desire but a belief that he wants to be together for a lifetime.

Originally, Jiang Defu, the "big boss", couldn't get into An Jie's eyes, but he took the initiative to brush his face to ask for medicine when his girlfriend and nephew had encephalitis, and his determination to "go home and farm" after his superiors made his attitude clear, deeply moved An Jie.

Is there a man in the psychology of you? Don't listen to what he says, look at what he does.

The man who truly loves you has only one word for you - she.

This is not only manifested in the fact that he will spend time with you, but also in his money, energy, and future planning.

So, when you are faced with a difficult situation, he will take the initiative to help without asking for help.

When a man has you in his heart, he will silently pay attention to your emotions and needs even if he doesn't say it.

Just like Jiang Defu in the era of material scarcity, even if life is very difficult, he will bring back the coffee she likes to his wife when he goes out of the island on business.

This may also be the reason why Anjie enjoys coffee so much.

Because in the heart of a man who loves you, nothing is more important than your smile and smile, money and resources are renewable, and your joy and beauty are scarce, no matter how you can't see enough, love is not enough.

On the contrary, if a man thinks that career, money, time, and energy are more important than you, then do you still believe in his vows? Still think you're his only favorite?

My friend Lily is out of love, but she prefers to call it an unrequited love derailment.

Lily has been with her boyfriend for almost a year, and has never seen his friends, family, or girlfriend publicly.

On her birthday, she forced her boyfriend to post a group photo to correct her name by drinking, and her boyfriend had no choice but to make a circle after several pushbacks.

What she didn't expect was that a week later, Lily found that the "official announcement" was actually visible only to her.

It stands to reason that one year is enough time to recognize a person, but Lily is not even sure whether the other party loves her or not.

What made her even more difficult to accept was that when she was suffering from internal friction, her boyfriend actually accepted the blind date arranged by her family.

At this time, Lily suddenly realized that the happiness and sweetness of the past were all illusions, and her boyfriend never identified with her girlfriend's identity in his heart.

If a man truly loves you, he will be proud of you and will want the whole world to share his joy and joy together.

As Golosovsky once said:

Heart to heart with each other, proud of each other, this is love.

When a man truly loves you, you are his pride and glory, he does not want to hide it and will not hide it, he will let everyone know that he is happy and satisfied;

When a man plays emotional games, he just wants to get the "benefits" he wants from you, and never thinks about being with you for a long time, so the fewer people who know, the better, after all, you can't influence him to "hunt" in the future.

Whether a man really loves you or plays emotional games is so obvious and easy to tell.

When he truly loves you, you will be able to feel his true affection.

Love is not an ethereal phantom, it will be manifested in a little bit of life can not deceive people, of course, not love is also, through the fragment of daily refraction, love and non-love are clear at a glance.

Love, marriage, emotion

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I'm Qingcheng. A psychologist with temperature, ** is a life recorder.

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