Have you ever been in a situation where you spend some time with a man and feel that he is good to you, but never says he loves you. You're torn up and don't know what he's thinking. Just when you are about to give up, he suddenly says "I love you" to you. Are you surprised, touched, and happy?But, have you ever wondered why he suddenly said he loves you?Does he really love you, or does he have some other purpose?
In fact, the timing and way of men saying that they love you reflects their attitude and expectations towards love. When a man says he loves you, there are two possibilities, one is sincere, and the other is playful.
Some men suddenly say they love you because they are really in love with you, they want to spend their lives with you, and their feelings for you are sincere and deep. When they say they love you, their eyes are full of tenderness and firmness, their tone reveals sincerity and commitment, and their actions reflect respect and care. Such a man deserves your cherishment and response.
However, some men suddenly say they love you because they want to play with you, they don't have real feelings for you, they just want to get your body or take advantage of your feelings. When they say they love you, their eyes flashed with hypocrisy and cunning, their tone concealed lies and deception, and their actions showed coldness and selfishness. You have to be careful and stay away from such men.
So, how can you tell if a man suddenly says he loves you?In fact, as long as you look closely, you can find some clues and signs. Next, I will tell you what are the judgment criteria that can be referred to when a man says he loves you.
Say love to your timeIf a man really loves you, he will not easily say the word "love you", he will wait until he is sure of his feelings and your feelings for him, and then he will express his love to you at the right time and in the right way. He won't rush to say he loves you not long after he met you, or before you have a stable relationship. He will not send you away with love after you have quarreled or he has done something sorry for you. He says he loves you because he really wants to be with you, not to achieve a certain purpose or cope with a certain situation.
Say the way I love you: If a man really loves you, the way he says he loves you, will make you feel his sincerity and affection. He will use his eyes, tone of voice, and movements to express his love. He will say "I love you" to you with gentle and firm eyes, in a sincere and committed tone, with a warm and close hug, when you are alone with you, or on a special day you have a special anniversary, or after you have experienced something memorable. He will not say "I love you" to you with perfunctory and casual eyes, with frivolous and false tones, with indifferent and casual movements, when there are many of you, or when you have no emotional foundation, or when you are **. He says he loves you because he wants you to feel his love, not for you to satisfy his desires.
Say love to your actions: If a man really loves you, the act of saying that he loves you will make you feel respected and cared for by him. He will prove his love with practical actions. He will care about your life, pay attention to your preferences, respect your opinions, support your dreams, accompany your growth, share your joys, and share your worries. He will be there for you in time when you need him to comfort and help. He will give you space and freedom to be yourself when you don't need him. He will give you loyalty and trust when you are together, and will not betray you or deceive you. He says he loves you because he wants to make you happy, not to hurt you.
Say love to you as a result: If a man really loves you, and the result of him saying that he loves you, will make you feel his persistence and responsibility. He will sustain his love with lasting action. He will plan the future with you, face difficulties with you, solve problems with you, and enjoy life with you. He will not change his attitude, give up his promise, and end his love when you encounter setbacks, or when he encounters **, or when he is tired of you. He says he loves you because he wants to be with you forever, not to disappoint you.
When a man suddenly says he loves you, it may be sincere, or it may be playful. You have to learn to discern and not be deceived by superficial sweet words, but look at his actual actions and attitudes. If he really loves you, he will prove with his actions that he will respect you, take care of you, support you, and accompany you. If he wants to play with you, he will use words, he will snub you, use you, deceive you, and abandon you. You have to believe that true love will not hurt you, and only fake love will make you miserable. Therefore, when a man suddenly says that he loves you, you have to feel with your heart, observe with your eyes, judge with wisdom, don't believe easily, don't give up easily, be responsible for your love, and check your happiness.
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