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With the development of the times, how much do you know about the identity of the "father"?
Do you still think that the father is only a "secondary parent" who provides the child with a roof and three meals a day? As the role of fathers continues to evolve, do we really understand their inner world? Do they also have their own dreams and pursuits?
These questions can be found here"500,000 Long Live Dad".Find out in this book.
"500,000 Long Live Dad".AuthorAnna MachinThe PhD is an evolutionary anthropologist from the University of Oxford.
She focuses on the science of fatherhood, the diversity of the human family, social networks, romantic relationships, and the impact of technological innovation on human behavior and health.
As a veteran researcher, she has gained insight into the experiences and challenges of parenting by following and observing men who become fathers over a long period of time.
"500,000 Long Live Dad".It is the culmination of her deep thinking and research on the role of father. Through real and touching stories, the author shows the fathers' life experiences at different stages, as well as their perseverance and courage in the face of challenges and difficulties.
From a positive perspective, the book reinterprets the role of fathers in family life and society.
Tell us that fathers are not only the pillars of material life, but also the emotional and spiritual mentors of their children. Let us understand and respect this important person who has quietly contributed in the family.
Today we are going to talk about the common growth of fathers and children, and analyze how fathers influence their children through their own growth process, shaping their outlook on life and values, which will be a far-reaching journey.
01 The shaping of the role of the father: from "strict father" to "growth partner".
In the past, fathers were often given the image of "strict fathers", but in modern society, more and more fathers are beginning to change their roles and become partners and supporters in their children's growth.
The famous actor Deng Chao, who has always been known for his humorous and amiable image in public, has also attracted much attention for his interaction with his son.
Deng Chao not only met his son's needs materially, but also gave him spiritual support and encouragement. He accompanied his son to participate in various activities, shared his experience and wisdom, and became a guide on his son's growth path.
This change in the role of a father has made the son feel more cared for and accompanied as he grows up, and has also cultivated his independent and self-confident qualities.
02 Emotional connection and communication: Establish a close parent-child relationship
Emotional connection and communication are the key to establishing a close parent-child relationship, and the author emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and communication in the father-child relationship.
Fathers need to feel their children's inner world with their hearts and understand their needs and emotions. At the same time, children also need to feel loved and supported by their fathers. This kind of emotional communication not only helps to establish a close parent-child relationship, but also promotes the healthy growth and spiritual development of children.
The parent-child relationship between the famous singer Eason Chan and his daughter Chen Kangdi has been highly praised. Eason Chan has always maintained a close relationship with his daughter in addition to his busy work.
He shared his daily life with his daughter through social **, allowing the outside world to see their deep father-daughter relationship. When her daughter faced difficulties, Eason Chan always gave support and encouragement at the first time, so that her daughter felt the warmth and strength of her father's love.
This emotional connection and communication not only allowed Eason Chan to establish a close parent-child relationship with his daughter, but also provided strong moral support for her growth.
03 Father's growth process: a valuable asset that affects a child's life
A father's upbringing is a valuable asset for his children. A father's experience, experience, and wisdom can be a guiding light and compass for a child's growth.
Jack Ma, a famous entrepreneur, his entrepreneurial journey is full of hardships and challenges. However, it was these experiences that made him cherish his family and care for his children even more.
In his interactions with his son, Jack Ma often shares his entrepreneurial experience and life wisdom, encouraging his son to face difficulties bravely and pursue his dreams. Under Jack Ma's influence, his son has also shown excellent leadership and innovation.
This father's growth process has a profound impact on children, not only learning how to face difficulties and challenges, but also how to become a responsible and responsible person.
The book says:The relationship between the father and the child is not a one-way relationship from father to son, but one of mutual influence, which leads to the fact that not only the father may influence the child's development, but the child will also affect the father's development.
Yes, as a father-to-be or a person who has become a father, from the moment he has children, he is destined to embark on the path of lifelong learning. Try to be a good father and a partner who grows with your children.
Let's walk into the world of "500,000 Long Live Dad", re-know our fathers, feel their love and dedication, and spend every beautiful moment of life together.
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About the author: Lin Xiaoyuer, the mother of two male treasures, awakened at the age of 35 and wanted to achieve both spiritual and material dignity in reading and writing.
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