What is the psychology of silence when a husband and wife quarrel?

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-04

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Husbands and wives are silent when they quarrel, what kind of psychology is hidden behind this?

Quarrels between husband and wife are normal, but silence when they quarrel is an abnormal psychology.

1. This kind of silence is often not because you don't want to talk to the other person, but because you are afraid of conflict, fear of anger and aggression from the other person. This fear may be due to past experiences, insecurity, or low self-esteem.

Second, some people may choose to be silent to avoid direct conflict with their partner because they believe that it will reduce their anxiety and stress.

Third, this silence often leads to more problems. If one of the spouses is always silent, the other spouse will often feel ignored or rejected. This feeling of emotional loneliness and alienation can lead to a gradual deterioration in the emotional relationship between the two partners.

The act of being silent in the event of an argument may be due to various psychological reasons, but as partners, we should try to understand and respect each other's feelings and reconnect with love. If this situation arises, it is recommended that both spouses can seek the help of a professional marriage counselor to communicate and counsel to find a solution to the problem.

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