01 Love is a very systematic life lesson, it covers getting along before dating, getting along during dating, and there is a very important part that is easy to be overlooked, that is, how to let go of this relationship and let go of this person after a breakup. Most people choose to be with a person at the beginning, thinking that they can be with each other for a long time and grow old, but they don't expect that love is volatile, and one day in the future there will always be a person who no longer loves another person. For people who don't love, breaking up is not a difficult thing, and there will be nothing sad after a breakup. The hardest thing is the one who was broken up, and the message is that he was forced to break up, and he still loves each other in his heart. Then, at this time, how to let go of a man who is still in love has become a very important thing. If you can't let it go, your future love life will be very unsmooth. What many people think is that if you let go of a person, just delete and block him, as long as you don't see any information related to him anymore, you won't think about him anymore and miss him. But in fact, no, if you really want to let go of a person, as long as you do three no's, don't delete, don't block, don't contact. 
02 Do you think it's okay to delete and block him? On the contrary, removing the block doesn't do anything at all. Whether you don't hesitate to decisively pull him into the blacklist, or you struggle for a long time to endure the pain of pulling him into the blacklist, the moment he enters the blacklist, your heart will indeed feel very cool. You'll feel like you've finally let go of this man, and you'll think it's cool that an exclamation point pops up when he sends you a message or a stunned "the other party has rejected it". But in fact, your heart has not let go of him, you will still think of him from time to time, remember the beauty when you were together, remember his kindness to you, and remember how happy you used to be. In the dead of night, you will open WeChat to search for his name, and find that you can't find anything, only to suddenly remember that he has been blocked by you. You will be curious to know if he is doing well, if he has ever thought of you for a moment, and you will regret blocking him and will want to add him back. Blocking and deleting does not allow you to completely forget about him, as well as let him go. It can also make you emotionally capricious. 
03 If you really want to let go of a person, what you have to do is not to block or delete, but don't contact either. Keep him in your friends list as if he were a very ordinary friend, and you are no longer friends with each other for some reason. Then, what should you do, you can post it on Moments if you want to, and if you don't want to post it, you won't post it. You don't have to deliberately pretend to post some moments of friends who are doing well, because if you pretend, outsiders can see it. Of course, you should also pay attention to one point, don't emo late at night, no matter how much emo you have, how unhappy you are, how much you miss him, don't show it in the circle of friends, that will only make him feel how powerful he is, and make you miss him so much. And, if you see him posting on Moments, don't like, don't comment, and don't do anything. If he likes and comments on your circle of friends, don't reply, as if this person doesn't exist. You can't contact him either, and you have to resist the urge to contact him at any time. As long as you hold back, you will succeed, otherwise your previous efforts will be in vain. 
04 In a relationship that has been separated, if the last person to leave really does not block, delete, or contact, then the relationship can basically be declared over. Because there is no connection between you anymore, the connection between the two of you has been completely broken. As long as you are ruthless enough and strong enough to keep him on your list and remain unmoved, it can also prove that you have completely walked out of the relationship. Deleting and blocking is just cool at the moment of this operation, but after it is cool, it has to experience a painful struggle in the heart. If you don't delete, block, or contact, it's the biggest test, and if you pass this test, it means that you've really passed. End article illustration Stills from "Bergman Island".