Others can hold concerts, why can't you? If you can't do it, don't do it. However, during the interview, Mr. Shirakawa was deeply hurt by his words and felt remorse.
This is a classic example of verbal aggression. When we are wronged or want the other person to change, we usually don't say what we say. They do feel that way, but express it in an aggressive way, as if they are right and the other person is wrong.
Once this pattern of behavior is formed, it can be difficult to change, especially in intimate relationships. If you feel neglected or angry, you were raised by your parents from a young age, so when you experience frustration or anger, you project those feelings onto your partner, which can negatively impact your relationship in the long run.
Therefore, we should be mindful of how we react and avoid using verbal language. When they are frustrated, hurt, or angry, they attack.
Change isn't easy, but you can improve yourself through constant learning and reflection. Never realize that you are responding to the other person in an aggressive way in order to recognize your problem. Facing and dealing with your negative emotions is a process of constant growth.
Many people know they have a problem with the way they communicate, but they don't try to change it. For example, Mr. Shirakawa Bai once confessed to her. Her personality has greatly influenced her marriage, family, and career.
But whether it's in our relationships, our next intimacy, or our careers, we can make huge strides if we're willing to change the way we communicate.
So let's learn to accept the imperfections in the world, like headaches and late-night partners. You can practice tolerance by making friends with them and accepting them.
02: When you meet a partner who behaves negatively and aggressively, don't accept it! If you experience verbal violence from an intimate partner, stay calm. It is best to get out of the area. Both sides need to calm down and reconsider. Sit down and talk about what it takes to be like that. Communication has become more civilized.
However, there is another type of attack that is called passive aggression. He spoke softly, but in a tone that angered those who heard him. Cuihua's husband Aso is one such person, he looks like a gentleman, but in fact he is very stubborn and stingy.
He always makes excuses for not letting you buy, but he doesn't want to admit that he's stingy. Cuihua got angry and said, "Did I offend you?" Then I apologize! ”
But there was no apology in his tone, which only made you angrier. If you meet someone like that, don't argue, do what you're supposed to do, and when he asks you what your money is spent on, pretend you're an idiot and walk away.
This kind of person is good at using hidden bitterness to achieve his own ends. When you are provoked, you fall into his trap. Therefore, the best thing to do is to ignore him and pretend not to understand.
This type of person lacks the courage to attack head-on and imposes standards on others, so "not accepting the attack" is the best option.
Some people have too much negative energy, and they try to spread their negative emotions to the people around them as much as possible, as if they can relieve their worries and pain by making others unhappy.
Peihua's boyfriend Huang Heng is such a person. His hidden negative attack energy is so powerful that even eating it makes people nervous. Every time Peifa looked at him, his eyes looked like he was hurting her.
What would you do if you met someone like that? Peihua loves Fan Heng very much, so she cares about Fan Heng's every move. In fact, when Fang Heng used his energy to attack the people around him like this, Pei Hua just walked away and ignored him completely.
If he needs my care, please let him learn to ask with a better attitude and tone. You can't abuse me like that. Therefore, the best way to deal with such people is to "don't care".