My name is Lu Xiaomin and I am 34 years old.
I'm the second in line, and I have an older brother who is three years older than me.
I grew up in a rural area, my parents were farmers, and my family had a few acres of land.
Later, a coal mine was dug up in the next village, and my father went to work.
My father worked in a coal mine, and his salary was small and he was tired.
But as the aunts got married, life in the family gradually improved.
My brother and I did not do well in our studies, but there was no concept of male superiority in our family.
My father encouraged us to study, but my brother stopped studying after graduating from junior high school.
I am determined to study hard and live a better life for my parents.
My father later went to work in other places, and my mother was frugal and did not buy new clothes for many years.
I studied hard and was admitted to two normal colleges in the college entrance examination, not far from home.
I didn't go home during the holidays during college, and I worked part-time to earn money to reduce the burden on my parents.
After graduating from university, I went back to my hometown county.
I entered a junior high school and became a teacher.
The parents were so happy! After my brother stopped going to school, he started hanging out at home.
His father couldn't get used to him and scolded him, but it worked very well, and soon he went to work in other places.
My brother doesn't earn much from his part-time job, but he refuses to save money and often asks his parents for travel expenses.
Relatives suggested finding him a daughter-in-law, who could help him manage his finances.
The mother asked someone to find a daughter-in-law for her brother, and the sister-in-law was very good at managing her brother and slammed the door tightly.
The sister-in-law is lazy, but the parents are even more tired.
Later, my sister-in-law gave birth to a son, and I was even more disgusted with my parents.
The sister-in-law doesn't work and criticizes her parents, and the sister-in-law doesn't dare to say much.
I met my husband after work, and we had a comfortable life after we got married.
My in-laws are very good to me, and they take care of everything in the house.
Every time I went back to my parents' house, my mother-in-law prepared things for me to take, saying that I had them at home and would take them myself.
My husband always encourages me to honor my parents, and my heart warms.
I've been married for more than seven years, and I've been going back and forth between my in-laws' house and my mother's house for seven years to bring things, including food, drinks, clothes, supplies, and toys for my little nephew.
On the 28th Chinese New Year's Eve, I gave my mother a New Year's gift, beer, drinks, ribs, lamb, beef, and prepared a lot.
My mother left me to have dinner with my husband at home.
My brother and sister-in-law also came back for the New Year, and after our family of three had dinner together, my brother and sister-in-law left with my nephew, and I stayed to clean up the dishes and chopsticks before leaving.
After walking for a while, I realized that I had forgotten my phone at home, so I asked my husband to turn around and go back to get it.
My husband was waiting for me in the car, and I got out of the car myself, and when I walked outside the front door, I heard my nephew talking to my mother very loudly.
He said, "Grandma, my mother asked you to tell the second fool to bring a bottle of vinegar next time you come back, and there is no more at home." ”
I didn't hear my mother's response, so I called out to her and said, "Mom, I forgot my phone, come and get it." ”
The mother then came out and said, "You child, you are reckless! "I left in a hurry after I got my phone, feeling extremely aggrieved.
The nephew just imitated speech.
It turned out that for so many years, my sister-in-law took me for a fool.
I didn't tell my husband, and I made up my mind that I would not give anything to my sister-in-law in the future, but only to my mother, but I thought that my sister-in-law would also come to pick it up, what should I do?