Wow, oh my goodness! I recently saw a ** that shared how mothers with high emotional intelligence use language routines to educate their children, which was really eye-opening. It turns out that excellent children are not born, but are cultivated little by little by their parents with wisdom and love.
After reading this, I feel that I have benefited a lot. The words of these high-EQ mothers are not only simple and easy to understand, but also very practical. They not only know how to praise children, but also know how to guide children, so that children can grow up with confidence and happiness.
For example, when a child gets good grades, a mom with high emotional intelligence doesn't simply say "You're awesome!" Instead, he would say, "I see that you put in a lot of effort, and this perseverance and perseverance is really valuable." Your achievements are a reward for your hard work, and I am so proud of you. Such words not only affirm the child's efforts, but also make the child understand that success requires dedication and perseverance.
For another example, when a child is struggling, a mother with high emotional intelligence will not blame the child, but will say, "I see that you have a challenge, but I know you have the ability to overcome it." Remember, failure is not scary, what is scary is giving up. I'm sure you'll find a solution to your problem. Such words not only give encouragement and support to children, but also teach children how to face setbacks and difficulties.
Another example is when a child does something good, a high EQ mom will say, "You're doing really great thing, I'm so proud of you." Did you know that your kindness and helpfulness are the most beautiful family style in our family? I hope you can keep this wonderful quality all the time. Such words not only praise the child's behavior, but also emphasize the inheritance of family values.
Seeing the words of these high EQ mothers, I really have to admire their wisdom and love. They use simple and sincere words to convey endless love and support to children. I believe that this kind of education will definitely cultivate more and more excellent children.
So, dear parents, if you also want to make your children better, you may wish to bookmark this article and learn more from these high emotional intelligence mothers when you have nothing to do. When you learn how to praise your child and how to guide your child, you will find that your child will become more and more confident, happier and better.
Remember, good children are not born, but are nurtured by their parents with wisdom and love. Let's work together to create a loving and supportive environment for children to grow up in!
In our daily lives, we can try to use these words of high-EQ mothers to make communication with our children smoother and more effective. For example, when a child completes a task, we can say, "I saw that you did the task seriously, and this sense of responsibility and self-discipline is really great." I'm so proud of you. Such words not only affirm the child's efforts, but also encourage the child to continue to maintain good habits.
When a child encounters a setback, we can say, "I know you're feeling sad right now, but remember that failure is a stepping stone to success." Let's find out what the problem is together and then work together to overcome it. Such words can not only comfort the child's emotions, but also guide the child to face the problem positively.
How much verbal violence hurts people. Language, as a communication tool, should be warm and kind, but sometimes, it can also be a hurtful weapon. Especially when verbal violence occurs in family education, the harm is immeasurable.
Imagine when a little kid is working hard but doesn't get good grades, if a parent uses "Why are you so stupid?" Or, "Why can't you do anything?" How will the child's heart be hurt in response to such words? They begin to doubt their own worth, feel that whatever they do is wrong, and lose confidence and motivation.
Imagine again when a child makes a mistake and the parent uses the phrase "Why are you so uncompetitive?" Or, "I'm so disappointed in you!" What kind of helplessness and frustration will the child feel when such words are accused? They can feel that they will not live up to their parents' expectations no matter what, resulting in feelings of low self-esteem and rebellion.
These examples of verbal violence are not uncommon in our daily lives. But as parents, are we aware of the harm that such language can do to our children?
In conclusion, the words of a high-EQ mom is a very practical method of education. It not only allows children to feel the love and support of their parents, but also helps children build self-confidence, develop quality, and improve emotional intelligence as they grow up. Let's learn the words of these high emotional intelligence mothers together to help their children's growth!
Dear parents, have you ever been envious of the way those outstanding mothers have been educated, and wondered how they have created such excellent children? In fact, there is no such thing as a secret to this, the key is that they have a deep understanding of their children, establish effective communication, and pave the way for them to succeed. Every child is unique and requires a personalized education plan based on their characteristics and needs.
In this process, the "art of speaking" has become a core skill that every parent must master. The book "The Language of Parents" has provided valuable guidance and advice for many parents. Not only does it help us gain a deeper understanding of our child's growth and development, but it also provides us with practical communication skills and strategies. For example, how to praise and criticize children appropriately, how to establish in-depth communication with them, etc. These tips and strategies will help us build a stronger bond with our children and guide them to grow up healthy and happy.
Let's work together to become better parents and contribute our wisdom and strength to the growth and development of our children. The Language of Parents is a great book to read, providing us with not only a wealth of theoretical knowledge, but also practical communication skills and strategies. Let's read this book together and create a better tomorrow for our children's future. Million Creators Program