The unprecedented development of the economy has boosted the diversity of thought and cognition, many people are no longer confined to the past when men are married and women are married, they pay more attention to personal independence and freedom of thought, especially when they do not meet a suitable spouse at the age of marriage and childbearing, they often choose to remain single, no longer coerced by the world and the pressure of parents, choose to blindly enter marriage and wronged themselves, and the older single has become a group that cannot be ignored in social development.
Around the age of 20, the body's hormones are at their peak, and men and women at this stage are most eager to find a suitable partner to enter into marriage, because hormones are the driving force behind their active search for a mate, and most people have formed their own families at this age and started the marriage journey of raising children.
In the process of choosing each other between men and women in their twenties, many people blindly determine their marriage partners and enter marriage because of the influence of body hormones, and they mistake the happiness in the process of physical communication with each other for love, in fact, it is just the natural reaction of male and female physical communication when the hormone is at a high level, and has nothing to do with love. But at that time, the minds of men and women were not mature, so they hurriedly entered into marriage driven by hormones, and finally all the beauty was shattered by the life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the siege of marriage. All kinds of problems and contradictions are constantly exposed after marriage, and in the end, there are those who endure humiliation and continue to live on their own, and there are those who parted ways and choose to divorce, and they begin to pay for the pain caused by their blindness before marriage.
Some people are unusually calm when they are about 20 years old, they are not completely kidnapped by estrogen in the body, they maintain the calm they deserve, and they do not make impulsive moves when dealing with marriage and love, they will combine the actual situation of the intended spouse to determine whether to enter into marriage with them, it is because of this reason that the threshold for marriage is too high, and there are very few people who can become the ideal object, and over time, older singleness has become their label.
After the age of 30, the hormones in the body decline, the group of men and women who have not been completely kidnapped by estrogen and androgens have become more calm and rational, they have experienced ten years of social polishing, it is easier to dialysis human nature, and they will not be easily bewitched by sweet words, compared with ten years ago, marriage and love have become more difficult, and the single group after the age of 30 is not better than 20 years old, and the resources have decreased and the threshold has not been lowered, resulting in more difficult marriage and love.
After the age of 30, the older single no longer has the same strong desire for the opposite sex as 10 years ago, but the ten years of living alone have formed an inherent living habit, and suddenly adding a person makes them feel that their private life is disturbed, and the instinctive rejection and exclusion of him also hinders their choice.
At this time, unless they lower their standards for marriage and love, it will be difficult for them to accept a person they don't like in their hearts. In addition to the need for a spouse when people are young, the demand for the opposite sex is not strong in middle age, in addition to the decline in hormones, more importantly, middle-aged people tend to have successful careers, good health, and do not need the participation of an outsider at all. On the contrary, in old age, the company of the opposite sex is more needed, in addition to resisting the loneliness after leaving society, but also because the body is deteriorating, there is one more person around to take care of each other.